The perfect kiss

[Psykotic]

I am aware this poster is underage and I have taken care of that, but thought you may still want to discuss.~ Lilith

I am 16 and have been 'using' this site since i was young. I have learn't alot from you all talking about sex, and have put theory to practice a few times.
Thing is, i want to know how to give the perfect kiss, with tongues. You know, what movement does my tongue do etc. Just i need to try and get things right for the girl i love so much. For any people that do help me out thanks. For the people that laugh at me, don't forget i am 16 and have a lot to learn. Anyway, bye.

[BlueSwede]

I'd be hard put to describe what is a good French kiss to me. I can tell you, though, that I can't stand if a guy is too aggressive with his tongue and tries, especially when we're first just starting to get warmed up, to stick his tongue down my throat. I dated a guy who is very tall (6'5") and had a very long tongue. He'd try to ram that thing down my throat and just about make me gag. I hated it, and I really wasn't sure how to tell him to not do it, because I know he thought he was a fantastic kisser.

I'd say to be gentle at first and get bolder with your tongue as you both get hotter; it's almost like a dance between your tongue and hers.

Sorry I couldn't be more articulate about it!

[BigBear57]

Well, I think a perfect kiss begins with the gaze, the tentative lead up to a couple of small kisses and builds into a longer more heated exchange. Tongues meet somewhere in the middle and lightly play tag. The accompanying embrace is as much a part of it as the tongues and lips. During the initial tongue touching I find my hands gently rubbing her back, slowly pulling closer mirroring the kiss. As the heat increases, tongues dance around each other playfully, arms hold her tightly and I'll pause, suckling a lip or offering smaller kisses. I'll lean back for a look in her eyes and run my fingers through her hair. If it was the perfect kiss... her eyes will show it.
Damn I need a smoke now. LOL :D

[jennaflower]

Damn BigBear... I need a smoke now too... and I DON'T smoke!!!

YUMMY

[BigBear57]

I'm a little rusty, I really need to refresh my memory. I might've overlooked something. hmmmmmmm if only it weren't so far :p

[jennaflower]

yep.... sooo damn far.. LOL

[Lilith]

Psykotic is no longer with us as he is underage.

[jennaflower]

damn them minors... LOL

good topic tho..

[Lilith]

I agree Jenna....nothing better than a long, slow, deep, soul probing kiss

[ericthered]

From a life time of experience.

The first thing to remember is remove your glasses first. If you give her a perfect kiss, she is quick like to slam her legs together and your glasses can get broken...blah, blah, blah..... and repeat as often as you can.

[Steph]

Sorry, just sent a message warning of him being underage - I'll read through it next time - I do warnings like this so often at work that I just reacted first.

[dadaist]

Since we're going to leave this topic here anyway.....

It's so hard to say that there's ONE perfect way to kiss, as it always depends on (mutual) mood, heat of passion, or lack thereof....
I mean, sometimes just an exhausted good night kiss is great (depending on what caused said exhaustion! ;) ).
And sometimes it's the hot, hard, against the wall, knees giving way kind that are perfect....

And sometimes you get nice results just teasing with your lips.....muahahaha.

[Loulabelle]

I always had a fantasy about someone holding my face, with both hands, tipping my face up towards them as though I were the most beautiful thing he'd ever seen, before moving in for a slow tender kiss.

When I first met Fussy, I was so shy and wasn't at all sure if I definitely wanted things to progress further that first meeting, but with no prompting at all from me, when he finally moved in for that first kiss, he did exactly that. I knew, when I felt his hands on my face that I wasn't going to resist and the kiss that followed was as tender and sensual as the way he'd held my face up to him........

Not sure I ever told you how much I LOVED that first moment, Fussy......thank-you. x

[skipthisone]

You know, I am usually against emotions...but my fave thing in the world to see is two inteligent adults falling for each other...

You just made me step a little higher with that post Lou, you two are very lucky.

Sometimes great things happen to good people.

[Loulabelle]

Ahem......falling?.....Who said anything about falling?......I'm not falling.....I don't know what you're talking about........certainly not.........the very idea.......*blush blush*

[skipthisone]

exuse me for being presumptious (right), I should never have been said something like that (even though i am right) and just want to appologize for making a statement like that (but I am sooo right). so please ignore my post from before (I am so damn right on this one) and carry on.

[Loulabelle]

LMAO @ Skip

You're starting to sound like Lilith. :p

[skipthisone]

Dear god shoot me now

[Lilith]

Originally posted by skipthisone
Dear god shoot me now
*cocks her head, rubs her nose, and shrugs her shoulders, in one swift movement*


I's could get that arranged for ya skipthisone;)

[PantyFanatic]

Originally posted by Lilith

*cocks her head, rubs her nose, and shrugs her shoulders, in one swift movement*
<--- *cocks his gun after checking to be sure there is another one left incase this is contagious*:(

[Cheyanne]

I agree with you Skip.....

What is neat is looking in from the outside... sometimes you see it before they do... :) The reward for me is when they eventually realize it and get together...... :)

[Loulabelle]

Cheyanne - nope still don't agree. I mean just because we spend every waking minute thinking about each other and every opportunity we have wrapped in each others arms does NOT mean we're in love. :p

[skipthisone]

I know just how to whisper
And I know just how to cry
I know just where to find the answers
And I know just how to lie
I know just how to fake it
And I know just how to scheme
I know just when to face the truth
And then I know just when to dream
And I know just where to touch you
And I know just what to prove
I know when to pull you closer
And I know when to let you loose
And I know the night is fading
And I know the time's gonna fly
And I'm never gonna tell you
Everything I gotta tell you
But I know I gotta give it a try
And I know the roads to riches
And I know the ways to fame
I know all the rules
And I know how to break 'em
And I always know the name of the game
But I don't know how to leave you
And I'll never let you fall
And I don't know how you do it
Making love out of nothing at all
Out of nothing at all, out of nothing at all
Out of nothing at all, out of nothing at all
Out of nothing at all,
Making love out of nothing at all
Everytime I see you all the rays of the sun
Are streaming through the waves in your hair
And every star in the sky is taking aim at your eyes
Like a spotlight
The beating of my heart is a drum and it's lost
And it's looking for a rhythm like you
You can take the darkness from the pit of the night
And turn into a beacon burning endlessly bright
I've gotta follow it 'cause everything I know
Well it's nothing till I give it to you
I can make the runner stumble
I can make the final block
I can make every tackle at the sound of the whistle
I can make all the stadiums rock
I can make tonight forever
Or I can make it disappear by the dawn
I can make every promise that has ever been made
I can make all your demons be gone
But I'm never gonna make it without you
Do you really want to see me crawl
And I'm never gonna make it like you do
Making love out of nothing at all
Out of nothing at all, out of nothing at all
Out of nothing at all, out of nothing at all

[Lilith]

* refrains from
1) chiding STO for the Air Supply reference (it seems apropo)
2) telling FP I told you so
3) mentioning a blue bridesmaid dress or babies
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[skipthisone]

I have a fond memory of waking up the morning after a wedding lying next to a woman in a half-on blue bridesmaid dress...damn i cant for the life of me think of her name or if I was even whose wedding....

[jennaflower]

Air Supply...

How many here can admit to going to their concerts? I can :) :) what wonderful memories those are ..

[Lilith]

Worse! I partied with them at a hotel pool one weekend in 1986 when I was 17. Just my wild freaky family and Air Supply in a hotel in Jersey.

[IAKaraokeGirl]

Jenna and Lil~can I join the Pixie's branch of the Air Supply fan club? ~sigh~ Those were the days. :)

[Nuelaan]

Air Supply, maybe, but for some odd reason they never had concerts in Rural Kansas, the closest was KC and that was fairly far away. Anyway at that time I wasn't/barely was able to drive.

[FussyPucker]

:D and that's all I have to say on the matter

[Lilith]

FP~ wipe that pussy eating grin off your face!! :p

[FussyPucker]

Lilith - That is impossible it's become a permagrin!! :D

[skipthisone]

Anyone else notice all Fussy does anymore is smile??

Lucky bastard.

[Cheyanne]

Originally posted by Loulabelle
Cheyanne - nope still don't agree. I mean just because we spend every waking minute thinking about each other and every opportunity we have wrapped in each others arms does NOT mean we're in love. :p


(The lady doth protest too much, methinks)


so............................. in lust maybe??? :)

[Loulabelle]

Cheyanne - Hehehehe......well we're definitely in lust!!!!!

........and I can assure you......I never 'protest' at all! LMAO

[Missy1965]

There is absolutely nothing sweeter then a kiss that touches your soul so intensely. It can make all the boo boos disappear. Phsykotic..You are young when you are truly kissed you will know it for sure and you will never forget it. :)

[LixyChick]

A kiss is still a kiss......

A sigh is still a sigh.......


*A kiss with a sigh and a breathless, sweet moan.........now that's a kiss!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!*

As time goes by.......