((((x))))

[Lilith]

Nothing to say but someone of you will get this and know. PM me if you need to talk.

[imaginewithme]

Oh Lilith....I just got chills all over my body.

Hugs.

[musicman]

time flies.....:hug:

[WildIrish]

:hug:

[Aqua]

((((lilith))))

[Lilith]

(((((((xox))))))))) all of you

[Steph]

Wow . . .

((((everyone)))))

[dicksbro]

(((( To All ))))

[LixyChick]

((((((((LIL))))))))))

2 months...or two years? No matter...it's all the same!

My heart aches with you!

xox...*shrug*

[jennaflower]

(((Hugs)))

I know I wasn't alone today... as my mind often drifted... amazing how time moves on... and the pain.. at this point remains... but I have faith.. as time moves on... I will be more confident in his being at peace... the memories will become sweeter... and the love and emotion I feel will always be there... he was and will always be my friend..

[Sassy Rose]

(((((hugs to all))))) I know this has not been an easy time for any who were close to him, but you are all still in my thoughts and prayers and with time, it will get easier and as jenna said the memories sweeter!

[sodaklostsoul]

(((((((((((everyone)))))))))))

[Cheyanne]

Miss ya buddy.... this one is for you.

(((((HUGS to ALL)))))

[Lilith]

Everytime I think of you, I always catch my breath
And I'm still standing here, and you're miles away
And I'm wonderin' why you left
And there's a storm that's raging through my frozen heart tonight
I hear your name in certain circles, and it always makes me smile
I spend my time thinkin' about you, and it's almost driving me wild
And there's a heart that's breaking down this long distance line tonight
I ain't missing you at all since you've been gone away
I ain't missing you, no matter what I might say
There's a message in the wire, and I'm sending you this signal tonight
You don't know how desperate I've become
And it looks like I'm losing this fight
In your world I have no meaning, though I'm trying hard to understand
And it's my heart that's breaking down this long distance line tonight

I ain't missing you at all since you've been gone away
I ain't missing you, no matter what my friends say
And there's a message that I'm sending out, like a telegraph to your soul
And if I can't bridge this distance, stop this heartbreak overload

I ain't missing you, I ain't missing you, I can lie to myself
And there's a storm that's raging through my frozen heart tonight

Ain't missing you, I ain't missing you
I ain't missing you, I can lie to myself
Ain't missing you, I ain't missing you
I ain't missing you, I ain't missing you
I ain't missing you, I ain't missing you, ain't missing you, oh no
No matter what my friends might say, I ain't missing you...

[imaginewithme]

I do miss him, very much.
I just went into the living room and turned on the stereo after seeing this thread and this song was half way over..... wow. Had to just sit down and listen. (of course I edited it some to post here)

I'll Be Missing You by PDiddy
Every day I wake up
I hope I’m dreamin
I can’t believe this
Can’t believe you ain’t here
Sometimes it’s just hard to wake up
It’s hard to just keep goin
It’s like I feel empty inside without you bein here
I would do anything man, to bring you back
I’d give all this shit, shit the whole knot
I saw your son today
He look just like you
You was the greatest
You’ll always be the greatest
I miss you big
Can’t wait til that day, when I see your face again
I can’t wait til that day, when I see your face again...

Yeah... this right here (tell me why)
Goes out, to everyone, that has lost someone
That they truly loved

Every step I take, every move I make
Every single day, every time I pray
I’ll be missing you
Thinkin of the day, when you went away
What a life to take, what a bond to break
I’ll be missing you

It’s kinda hard with you not around
Know you in heaven smilin down
Every day we pray for you
Til the day we meet again
In my heart is where I’ll keep you friend
Memories give me the strength I need to proceed
Strength I need to believe
My thoughts I just can’t define
Wish I could turn back the hands of time
Us in the 6, shop for new clothes and kicks
You and me taking flicks
Makin hits, stages they receive you on
I still can’t believe you’re gone
Give anything to hear half your breath
I know you still living you’re life, after death

somebody tell me why

On that morning
When this life is over
I know
I’ll see your face

Every night I pray, every step I take
Every move I make, every single day
Every night I pray, every step I take
every day that passes
Every move I make, every single day
is a day that I get closer
to seeing you again
Every night I pray, every step I take
we miss you big... and we won’t stop
Every move I make, every single day
cause we can’t stop... that’s right
Every night I pray, every step I take
Every move I make, every single day
we miss you

[jennaflower]

*sigh*

[Lilith]

http://www.aravisarwen.com/3candles.jpg

Today
left a scar upon my soul.
Today
life's fleeting moments seem so brief.
Today
missing you feels as normal as did loving you.

[Cheyanne]

(((((Lil))))

......me too

[Lilith]

((Chey)) It's not til tomorrow but as soon as July begins to creep up on my calendar I begin to go over those last days again and again. By the time the 3rd gets here I'm a wreck.

[sodaklostsoul]

:rose:

[osuche]

(((Lil)))

tell you, hopeless grief is passionless;
That only men incredulous of despair,
Half-taught in anguish, through the midnight air
Beat upward to God's throne in loud access
Of shrieking and reproach. Full desertness,
In souls as countries, lieth silent-bare
Under the blanching, vertical eye-glare
Of the absolute Heavens. Deep-hearted man, express
Grief for thy Dead in silence like to death--
Most like a monumental statue set
In everlasting watch and moveless woe
Till itself crumble to the dust beneath.
Touch it; the marble eyelids are not wet:
If it could weep, it could arise and go.

- Elizabeth Barrett Browning

[Loulabelle]

(((((((((((((Lil)))))))))))))


(((((((((((((((((everyone)))))))))))))))))

I.....I.....er......there are no words.

[WildIrish]

(((((Lil)))))

[gekkogecko]

Wow, it has been a while...already.

[Lilith]

http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_kIVJ2xIgCoQ/SVtyhhDkBuI/AAAAAAAAAq4/fQbC8gts__s/s400/P1000620.JPG

[PantyFanatic]

http://serve.mysmiley.net/sick/sick0004.gif (http://www.mysmiley.net)

[Aqua]

:(

[Lilith]

You really were because you are always with me now.

[sodaklostsoul]

Loved the Vegas tribute Lilith.

[dicksbro]

(((((((((( LILITH )))))))))))






We miss him, too.

[Lilith]

That is on a rock at the Grand Canyon.

[sodaklostsoul]

I meant to say your Vegas trip. :spin:

[Lilith]

When he shall die
Take him and cut him out in little stars
And he will make the face of heav'n so fine
That all the world will be in love with night
And pay no worship to the garish sun.
~William Shakespeare, Romeo and Juliet

[jseal]

Each year fewer remember.

[Lilith]

But for those who do, he dwells within.

[Coaster]

He was before my time here................

but I can see he touched many of you,

so he must have been a very good man.

[Lilith]

nah. He was a bastard.

[Scarecrow]

When ever I drive through Effingham I think of him.

[dicksbro]

I don't get through Effingham very often, but, I always wish I knew which cemetary he was in and what name to look up on the registar. If I did, I'd stop and pay my respects and maybe get a photo of the gravesite to share with all his special friends.

[PantyFanatic]

I think you may get help. :(

[Lilith]

I already Pmmed.

[Aqua]

The years pass, yet the tears do not dry up.

What a bastard.

[AZRedHot]

The years pass, yet the tears do not dry up.

Ain't that the truth. Thinking of all of you who love and remember Skip, today and every day. I didn't know him, but I do know what it is to miss someone that much. July is a tough month.

:molest: <--those are supposed to be hugs, in this instance

[PantyFanatic]

I have kept his PM from 14 April 2004 to me. :cool:

[Lilith]

I took it all for granted. :( I was sure he'd always be around to fill my box.

[sodaklostsoul]

I have kept his PM from 14 April 2004 to me. :cool:
I too have a PM saved. I hadn't been here long before he left.

[Vicious Tease]

:(

[Lilith]

Missing you today.
http://farm5.static.flickr.com/4049/4234807066_d025b27bf5.jpg

[gekkogecko]

Seriously, 9 years already? Holy crap.

[Lilith]

I facebook stalk his wife and kiddo. I wish I could say hi and tell her how awesome her dad was and how much he loved her. Maybe when she is a grown person. *shrugs*

[sodaklostsoul]

:rose:

[Oldfart]

I say again, 9 years?

[Lilith]

It's his 44th birthday today.

[gekkogecko]

I had forgotten he was such a young'un.

[Lilith]

I didn't forget you. Not this year, not ever.

[dicksbro]

Nor have any of us, Lil! He's always in my prayers!

[Lilith]

16 years today <3

[jennaflower]

16 years today <3

I miss him still... it just doesn’t seem possible that it has been 16 years... I still remember where I was when I was told... and crying in the bathroom at work...

His humor, his laughter, the phone calls... and the dreams...

[jennaflower]

It’s approaching again… it proves how much impact you can have on someone’s life.

RIP Skip.. miss you.

[Lilith]

19 years today you Bastard. Miss and love you still.

[jennaflower]

Hugs Lilith…. It just doesn’t seem possible… still miss him.

[gekkogecko]

Yeah, it still sucks.

[dicksbro]

Right you are, GG.

He has been missed.

[Lilith]

20 years. I'll never forget you Bastard. I tell everyone about you, all of it. I've watched your children grow up on social media and you'd be so proud. Thank you for sharing you with us, here. Your obituary still has zero entries and that tells me everything I needed to know about your "real" life. Meanwhile people here still mention your memory. Love you.

[gekkogecko]

Twenty years? Twenty? just...