Sher
03-27-2009, 02:45 AM
So I started talking to this guy online and we seemed to hit it off. We talked like all day every day for a couple of weeks straight and we both said that we weren't looking for a serious relationship. We had a mutual acquaintance and she said that he was a nice guy as well.
So after talking a while longer the conversation eventually led to sex and we had planned to meet up sometime where it may eventually lead to us having a casual relationship. We had begun fooling around on webcam too. So things kept happening and we never met after like a month. We weren't talking as much as we were when we first started and it seemed like I was the one who initiated the conversation most of the time.
Well one night I was up late and he gets online and he's had a few beers but he wasn't drunk and he starts talking about sex and how he's horny. Starts joking about how I should go over to his house that night. So we keep talking about it and I just keep getting more horny as time goes on. So i end up going over. We're a little shy at first but then things heat up and we're into foreplay. I love giving head so I decide to go down on him and I guess I was really good because he came fairly quickly. Of course he said he'd be able to go again but after 10 minutes decided he was too tired... it was like almost 6am at this point.
So in the morning he says he doesn't have the energy to have sex and things just feel awkward. I go home and we don't talk for a few days and then I hear from the mutual friend that she thinks he deleted me. So I delete him.
I find out a week later that he didn't delete me so we chat a little on msn but he's pissed at the friend for talking about him. So we still aren't chatting much but in the last couple of days he randomly comes up and says he's horny and wants to go on webcam with me. I love watching a guy jerk off so I agree but now it just feels wrong because he'll only talk to me when he's horny and then leaves right after to get a shower or go to bed.
I don't want a relationship or anything with the guy and I have decent guys that I talk to online so he's like my fuck buddy online I guess. But I'm not really digging the only chatting when horny deal.
Any advice on what he may be thinking or what I should say to him? Cause I do like chatting with him and he does turn me on but not really sure what to do.
So after talking a while longer the conversation eventually led to sex and we had planned to meet up sometime where it may eventually lead to us having a casual relationship. We had begun fooling around on webcam too. So things kept happening and we never met after like a month. We weren't talking as much as we were when we first started and it seemed like I was the one who initiated the conversation most of the time.
Well one night I was up late and he gets online and he's had a few beers but he wasn't drunk and he starts talking about sex and how he's horny. Starts joking about how I should go over to his house that night. So we keep talking about it and I just keep getting more horny as time goes on. So i end up going over. We're a little shy at first but then things heat up and we're into foreplay. I love giving head so I decide to go down on him and I guess I was really good because he came fairly quickly. Of course he said he'd be able to go again but after 10 minutes decided he was too tired... it was like almost 6am at this point.
So in the morning he says he doesn't have the energy to have sex and things just feel awkward. I go home and we don't talk for a few days and then I hear from the mutual friend that she thinks he deleted me. So I delete him.
I find out a week later that he didn't delete me so we chat a little on msn but he's pissed at the friend for talking about him. So we still aren't chatting much but in the last couple of days he randomly comes up and says he's horny and wants to go on webcam with me. I love watching a guy jerk off so I agree but now it just feels wrong because he'll only talk to me when he's horny and then leaves right after to get a shower or go to bed.
I don't want a relationship or anything with the guy and I have decent guys that I talk to online so he's like my fuck buddy online I guess. But I'm not really digging the only chatting when horny deal.
Any advice on what he may be thinking or what I should say to him? Cause I do like chatting with him and he does turn me on but not really sure what to do.