What's the longest time....

[Lovediva]

You've gone without having any sex?????? :D ;)

(Virgins need not answer!! :D :p ;) LOL)

[Sarriah]

The longest i have gone was 2 weeks (i think, im not to sure) , and thats no sex no contact and no taking care of my self. IT SUCKED!!!!!!!!!! :D

[iikiibuu]

Well i think i can say i beat you all i have havnt had sex at all in my life and im 21 will be 22 on the 5th of April i have never even had Oral or been masterbated by another person :(

[Sarriah]

oh no im sorry iikii....

[iikiibuu]

be alright, :) if i cant smile at it what can i smile at eh? sorry for depressing anyone, but at least i have alot of fantasies to fullfill now :)

[Sarriah]

hehe you didnt depress anyone dear :D

[Lovediva]

Actually Iiikiibu you should be very proud of yourself to still be a virgin! :)

[iikiibuu]

How'd you figure that one out then Diva? :) i know why i am though my morals (Won't take advantage of anyone while theyre drunk things like that) and that i could curdle milk by looking at it :)

[Sarriah]

?? :)

[iikiibuu]

im Ugly as you can get :) But this is not supposed to whats talked about in the thread :)

[Sarriah]

i bet thats not true tho iikii, but your right this isnt the post to talk about this hehe. why dont you post a pic ? :)

[iikiibuu]

because im too ugly dont have a camera or any other form of method of getting my ugly mug on here :)

[Sarriah]

your to hard on your self iikii.... Sorry Diva for taking over your thread hehe wont happen again... :D

[iikiibuu]

Yup honest never ever happen again want you to keep those steel toe caps hidden from me promise ill be good :)

[jay]

well that was a very interesting conversation but now to get back to the topic. I went two years when I was a teenager but since then I think the longest was two weeks after each of my children were born.

[Lilith]

OT~ Jay~ you only gave your wife 2 weeks after she gave birth to your kids...DAMN!!!!! She must be one hell of a lady! If you picked her I am sure she is :)

I went 6 weeks after my first child was born (Drs. orders) but other than that 2 weeks I think was the longest........ lately 2 days seems like 2 weeks

[jay]

lil. I had to talk her into waiting the whole two weeks.

[Lilith]

What a man........ now I remember why I hired you;)

[Grumble]

well the last time I had sex was February 2000. Marriage problems and I am not cut out to be unfaithful.

I have recently seperated but have not broken the ice yet.

I am a bit shy about it really LOL I have been out of the dating game for a long time.

I like seeing so many couples here at pixies, sharing your sexuality in a place like this can be so exciting.

Well fingers crossed (or ladies should that be legs open LOL) for grumble to be back in action soon :D :D :D :D

[Tango Seven]

The longest time I've gone without having any sex with a partner is about a week. However, in terms of intercourse about a month when my wife gave birth to our kids. I'm also assuming you don't count masturbation.

[BamaKyttn]

my longest well, since losing my virginity, has been 3 weeks...... almost killed me.

[Radies]

i haven't had sex since i lost my virginity back in november, shows to go how much of a dork i really am

[Lilith]

Radies~ Not a dork.... just being particular about who you share yur goodies with :D

[xanne]

Hmmmm, four long &%&(*^#%@ months. Almost forgot what it felt like!! :(

[Nice Guy]

The longest I went was 2 years. And now I'm working on 2 months.

[Christine]

The longest I've gone without while in a relationship is 4 weeks. (after the birth of my daughter)

[kiwi15]

Nearly three years. Vaginal penetration is too painful for my wife and she is absolutely set against anal. Doctors can't help her, even with drugs, hormones and KY. I've had other relationships during our marriage that have fulfilled my needs to please and be pleased. However, I met somebody really special in Australia and I can't be unfaithful to her even though we've been separated all this time and probably won't ever get together sexually again. The answer to the other questions you may well be asking are that I have a son who needs his parents to be together right now and I couldn't have sex with my wife in any case because the only bond we now share is our son.

[john39]

Kiwi15,

Join the club! I have been a member for over 7 years.

I doubt that I am much diferent from most men that have post menopausal wives who have lost ALL libido. My research indicates that this is very common and probably the norm.

I have no desire whatsoever to look elsewhere for what is still necessary, indeed vital, for my continued sanity. Fortunately, my wife is totally understanding of this and has no objection to my activities beside her in bed or in the shower.


Good Luck!

John.

[Ophelia]

Ugh...sad to say, but I once went 3 years. Mostly because of travel and situations. Of course...that doesn't mean I didn't take care of my own! Nobody loves me like I do! :)

Ophelia

[click]

its been three years tht i m not having sex at all ... no oral . Nothing i mean .

[Reverend Silky]

nineteen years. but after that, about a year. and as it stands, about three months. even though a good 50% of my thoughts are occupied daily by sex, i seem to be placin' less and less actual importance and priority on it with each progressive day. *shrug* such is life, i guess.

[scotzoidman]

My long dry season?... over 2 yrs, from the conception of our 1st child (she didn't want to risk sex during a complicated pregnancy) until he was over a year & a half old... to quote Erma Bombeck, I lost everything in the post-partum depression...

[Oldfart]

Almost six months during a tough time in the marriage.

She toughed herself out of the bed.

[Lovediva]

Well having 2 children aside...which sex was not happening for about 4 weeks...

The longest I have gone is 9 weeks....:( cause he is NEVER in the damn mood!

And now I am going on my third week...Do I see a partten devolopping here??? <Gotta to find me a new man..LOL>> :D ;)

[MissX]

Probably about three months and my friends were getting heartily sick of me and were making encouraging comments about one night stands, taking me out to clubs in sheer desparation etc.

[Eros]

You don't even wanna friggin know!!! LOL! Too damn long, that's all I have to say about that.

Eros

[Irish]

I assume that you're counting masturbation as sex!I think that I
went a day once.Even during my wifes pregnancies and menstrual
cycles;we still mutually masturbated.My wife always wore a tampon and she climaxes clitorily(sp)In other words;a string is no deterrent! Irish
P.S.Sexual contact with another is not enjoyable;to me;unless they climax also.My wife is always good for;at least;three climaxes

[Cinderella]

Let's see. I lost my virginity 61 months ago. Have not had sex since then. So, just over 5 years.

[Sugarsprinkles]

12 years here! Many reasons...I was informed that I was no longer desirable because I had gained a considerable amount of weight. Then went through menopause and lost my desire as well, so it was no big deal. But am now post-menopausal and suddenly the long lost libido has returned with a vengance. Unfortunately, he still isn't interested. We also operate on opposite schedules which makes it difficult if not impossible.
I'm not very good at keeping secrets, so going outside my marriage is not an option. Although I did my share of sleeping around before I met him, I've never cheated on him and don't intend to start now.But damn, I'm horny as hell!!! :(

[mtavistar]

Well-my love has been in Hawaii for 12 days and that is the longest for me. But he gets back tonight, so that'll be taken care of!!

[cheena69]

If you count in a relationship, 17 weeks...and that was the beginning of the end for us.

Outside a relationship...17 months, 13 days. Didn't have much of a choice....none of the guards were interested :( :(

Other than these, 24 days after the second child.

[Oldfart]

Cheena!

Never picked you for a guard chaser.

[Finn]

Diva! Is your hubby dead? with your sexappeal and those boobs not interesred? JEEESUS...
for me, 3 years max without sex :( yikes. then i found my true love=not a day without any form of sex, then she left :( = 6 month without any sex until a "friend" was helpful at newyear... then again sexless until ladt weekend when the love of my life and i met for a short but intense moment :) GOD I LOVE HER :(

[cheena69]

Some of those female guards in there were real foxes!:p

Just too many of us to all enjoy them...hehe

[Oldfart]

Well fielded.

We'll talk about this sometime.

A kilt doesn't make it a chick!

[danziggy]

between girl friends about a year...i think...

i had just split from a long relationship and she ripped my heart out. i went through a time just drinkin and havin fun. wasnt interested in ladys..wasnt able to do it at the end of the night due to alcohol anyways.

[Eros]

I know I said "you don't wanna know" earlier, but I was just thinking. It's been right at 6 months now. Don't get me wrong, masturbation is great, but I'm gonna get Carpal Tunnel Syndrome if this keeps up!..LOL

[Irish]

It just dawned on me recently that I;unknowingly;lied.I went about 2wks. when I was circumcised!It scared the Hell out of me;
because when you are sleeping;you get erections and I was afraid that I would start bleeding!Any Male-Try to go 2wks without
a hard-on. It's impossible. Irish
P.S.It's also almost impossible;when you are used to "getting off"
;at least;once a day for years.You're body craves it even more.It's
like withdrawing from a drug!

[bigwolf]

I guess I shouldn't feel so bad after reading everybody's posts but I am going on a 8 month drought. Complication with my wife's pregnancy so intercorse is OUT of the question for about another 5 months. There are oral options that are great but I still miss (very much) intercorse. It feels like I am goint to loose it sometimes but I will always wait for her.

[IAKaraokeGirl]

*bump*

[MistaKissa]

Just gone about 9 months due to new addition to family, but boy was it worth the wait.

[Cheyanne]

7 years

[dm383]

Originally posted by danziggy
..wasnt able to do it at the end of the night due to alcohol anyways.


Just over 2½ years for me...... Medically discharged from the Army at 19, I didn't have a good opinion about ANYONE or ANYTHING for the longest time ~ and that Especially included women!

Like danziggy, at that time my main aim in life was to get as drunk as possible, as OFTEN as possible (and that was quite a lot!!) Women just didn't enter into my equations at all..... unless it was to argue with! GOD, I must have been totally obnoxious then!

DM

[nikki1979]

um last summer i went 4 months :O cuddnt belive i did it was so proud! hubby and i were unable to be togather he was here and i was in the states stayin w his mom fighting a loosing custody battle :( but i did it ..............and cuddnt walk for a week once i got home!!!!!!

~nikki~

[OzKristin]

well as i said in other threads (i've lived w/ my bf since the end of june 2002) When I went on my trip to Australia beginning of May 2003 until end of August 2003, thats just about 3 1/2 months of no sex...and having been living w/ him...that was my longest and biggest struggle yet! But we had a lot of fun on the phone and online thru ims and webcam ;)

[cowgirltease]

3 or 4 months...........maybe:p