FUCKING HELL! LUMP in Wife's Breast is bacK!!

[Wildeye]

I cannot fucking believe it, after all the stress the fucking thing is back...I am despairing, she is taking it well, but I am so depressed - any one have experience of recurring breast lumps? In the same place?

VERY DOWN and WRETCHED

Andrew AKA WILDEYE:(

[aflyerfan]

No experience with it Wildeye,but I wish you all the best and hope things turn out well for you.

[GermanSteve]

Keep your head up, Andrew. You have the power to do the best for your wife. Use your chance.
Everything else happening is what´s called life and destiny.
I wish you two all the best.

Stefan

[Wildeye]

Aflerfan and stefan

Thanks for the support. I really appreciate your quick responses and words..it has just blown me out of the water. I cannot contemplate life without her, sorry really fucked up and down.

From the very first moment I saw her I knew I loved her, more than spirit, more than sex - she is the love of all my lives. Yes Sex is incredible and physically we connect 100% but more so we connect mentally and are in tune.

Andrew AKA Wildeye feeling like fucking weepy eye.

[dicksbro]

Know a lot of folks that have been through this but no personal experience. I know your wife will need your strength and support and be sure to tell her she's got our prayers. Best of luck, it's amazing all they can do today!

[aflyerfan]

Your very welcome. Stay strong and stay in love.

[Pussy Willow]

I hope and pray for the best possible outcome for this. You and
your wife are both in my prayers. She needs you to be strong
for her. You have all of our prayers and support behind you to
help you do that. Just keep doing what your doing, letting her
know how much you love her.

Love is a very powerful ally, she is very fortunate to have someone who loves her so much!!!!!

Keep the faith !!!

[lilcksckr]

I have had 2 lumps removed (both non-magilant, thank God!)and have about 16 more right now. Just because there is a lump does not necessarily mean that it is cancer. Some women have somthing called fibrocysts(sp?). Wish you both the best. Please post and keep us up to date.

[jennaflower]

Wildeye...

As lilcksckr just pointed out.. the existence of such lumps is not necessarily worst case scenerio. I will keep both of you in my thoughts.. and send good thoughts your way... please keep us posted.. we are here... as you tread water until good results are verified...

HUGS.

[Lilith]

Andrew~ My mom has had 4 surgeries all in the same exact area.............all benign but docs have insisted on alllllll the surgeries. Ask that should she have to have it removed, could they insert tags that stay in her breast that help them to measure the growth of future lumps. Would save unecessary surgery later....

Hugs and positive energy being sent your way to envelope you both:)

[Irish]

Wildeye---My wifes;oldest sister;had a double masectomy(sp)Her
;long time;husband;and 2 grown sons;gave her all the support in
the world.I know;that it is devestating;but give her as much love;
as you can!Let her know that she means more too you;then a body part.I'm not trying to tell you what to do;just trying to help!
Good Luck! Irish

[Wildeye]

Pixies

Thanks for all the support - Irish your great and lil and PuusyWillow (cute name), lilcsker (?) and Jennaflower (great stories. Sorry about emotional blast - let imagination get the better - unfortunately spouse's grand parents except one died from the big C, and spouse is 100% smoker, it's not a body part I'd love her anyway, that is not important compared to "Her" and the essential "her" - love the whole package - even never putting on lids, never throwing out cotton buds and forgetting to wear knockers.

Thanks folks - Boomshanka!!

WILDEYE AKA Andrew

[legend]

hope things go well for you Andrew. Good Luck. :)

[A.K.'s Sex-Pot]

Andrew, you may feel you need advice, but it is you who is an example to us all. The love you share with your wife is truly beautiful, and that can't be changed no matter what the future brings.

Sounds to me like you are doing everything right, so just know that we're here when you need us for support and friendship.


Admiringly,

AK

x

[Nikki]

I hope everything works out ok for you all..........

[roxanne916]

Andrew,

I will keep you and your wife in my thoughts. I hope for the best for both of you.

*wrapping my arms around both of you in a warm hug*

[Lovediva]

(((((((Wildeye))))))))) and one for your loving (((((((((((Wife))))))))))

I am so sorry to hear that the lump is back..you will both be in my prayers.....

[Wildeye]

Thanks folks

I am feeling better and things may be ok, its just waiting it out and all that entails..

Lovediva - I'm curious - how are you improved? You always seemed pretty cool to me?

Wildeye

[Lovediva]

Lovediva - I'm curious - how are you improved? You always seemed pretty cool to me?

Well gee thanks Wildeye!! Wish my kids would think I am cool...LOL

As for new and improved...I was playing around yesterday! Sorry.....




..but there is always room for improvement right? :D ;)

[Wildeye]

Lovediva

I'm not sure if you can improve your witty, sexy ideas - love to play with you.

On a kinda serious note - play its something we adults do not do enough of, except here, I love playing games with the kids you know football, tag, silly stuff but you can only really do it with kids grown ups/adults often think that games are silly or chasing around a castle at midnifght somewhat childish.. yes I used to play in castles at midnight and as a student (at age 28 we would often play hide and seek, sardines, water fights etc it really helped to relax and just let the adult stuff drop.

I love paying with my spouse, tickling, chasing in the garden - a great expewrience was chasing each other nude outdoors and an ex B/F loved wrestling, chasing and rolling about.

ohh well enoufgh

Wildeye

[katekate42]

You and your wife sound like an adorable couple. I'm very sorry to hear that her lump is back, but as someone pointed out in an earlier reply, lumps are not always malignant, and we are all hoping that this is the case. I know my roommate just had an experience with a fibrocyst, and sometimes they simply go away on their own after the hormone fluctuations of the menstrual cycle. You are both in our thoughts and prayers and best of luck :)

[Wildeye]

Karatekate

Please describe the Wife of Indra

Wileye

[Wildeye]

Hello

Folks, first thing lump is gone. Just went, so I'm glad it was not surgery, but kinda scared it will return ...

Sex not picked up yet, but I know she's going through it still...ladies any sensous ideas to kick start a loving relationship? I'm trying to think of ways which are not connected to shoving my cock into her and not vibrators, so what turns you ladies on in a sensous, erotic way??

On another point, life with kids is hard, I'm far from being adorable..the kids were kinda badly behaved and I was very grumpy and now I feel so low from being guilty about shouting at 'em and they were only being kids..

But the goood news lump gone for now, and looking for postivies again.

Thankls for all your help and words and support and love..

Someone else has got a thread on orgies, I'd love to invite you all to one and give out multiple orgasms..

Wildeye AKA Andrew

[Lilith]

Wildeye hard to be a sexy stud and a patient Dad sometimes. So glad about that fecking lump....... Offer her a massage, kiss every square inch of her not just the typically sexy ones, brush her hair, do every thing short of having sex... for days, flowers still work on me but not store bought ones (S/O covered my pillow with magnolia flower petals one night), take the initiative and hire a sitter, take her out and to a hotel after......do things that take effort and thinking on your part, you write so sexy...write her a story or a poem....read to her while she lies her head on your chest and play with her hair.......OK now I want all that!!!!!!!

[TinTennessee]

Wild, I am so glad to hear that the lump is gone. The disease others were referring to is fibrocystic breast disease and it just means that your breasts are full of lumps. I have this and it is usually harmless. However, I will tell you that caffiene makes it worse.

Now as for what you can do for your wife...you have done so much already just being there for her but.....remember what you wrote a page or so back about how you feel about her....show it to her....

I wish you both the best life has to offer.

[ericthered]

Aprt from flowers (you can't go wrong with these unles she has hayfever), try opening the car door for her. If you can manage this while making it appear natural, you will be marking up brownie points! Also touch her lots, especially when you are out together.

Making her feel wanted and secure should get things back to normal (or better).

[dicksbro]

Wildeye, glad to hear the lump is gone. Said a lot of prayers for her ... we'll just hope it's gone for good. You two just take care and we'll keep the good vibes coming.

[Wildeye]

Lilith - great ideas, I tried some the flowers really worked.

Thanks too to Tintennese and erectherd.

I did buy her some kinky sex panties (ok for me too) fisrt a nice pair with a discreet slit and a thong with a wide gaping opening, OH WOW we both get mega turned on she even wore one pair out! Seeing her in these panties on the bed, well my knob went massive, absolutely huge, I know that crotchless knicks are tacky but heck it got us turned on. I also found out that Selfridges (big UK shop) best selling knickers are crotchless.

I was so amazed at how erotic and sexy they look, especially as i am bi - my cock was huge and we both had an utterly great shag!!!

Ladies any thought on crotchless panties?

Wildeye

[Grumble]

Hey Andrew

Just caught up with the thread and am glad it that things have turned out OK Must be hard on you mate

As i said last time I wish you both love health and happiness

[Wildeye]

Grumbleguts

Thanks. i wish i lived near to you, i'd buy you a beer.

Andrew aka wildeye

[lizH]

>I was so amazed at how erotic and sexy they look, especially as i am bi - my cock was huge and we both had an utterly great shag!!! <

Wildeye, perhaps you can explain this to me a little better. Most bis I know well enough to discuss such things, including myself (I'm bi too) seem to be more "open" and "turned on" by things like thongs and crotchless panties than straights, if anything. How did your being bi have any sort of negative effect, or would you expect it to have a negative effect?

[Wildeye]

lizH

not sure i can explain. bi side is pretty much restrained not "out", but i adore women - love girls and their clothes, ways of thinking and love sex.

bi is not for me thinking "cor sexy man" rather it is thinking about explicit MM sex acts

wildeye

[DirtyDeeds]

You might want to check out this site.........
http://imaginis.com/breasthealth/fibrocystic_breasts.asp