I enjoy giving with her on her back with me facing her feet beside her, that way I can finger her and lick her. Or inbetween her legs with her legs around my head pulling me deeper. Getting what ever position she enjoys without putting her legs to sleep.

Any way but 69ing.....................I find that distracting. (now don't get me wrong.............I like a good 69ing .............but for foreplay only) I like her sitting on my face watching me or her sitting in a chair with my face between her legs licking from Clit to pucker. A great BJ matters not what position I'm in. ;)

quisath I agree with you on the 69 business... skip it and lick me ;)

Oh Gawddddd............I love it when you talk DIRTY!............................................ .................... Now EAT ME! ;)

Giving, definately on my knees in front of him. Whether he's standing or sitting doesn't bother me much. Sitting may provide the better view, but standing means I can occasionally grab his ass and pull him towards me.

Getting, yes please. Any position. Not picky....although I have been known to lose balance at awkward moments. If I have to choose, gosh, probably on my back, legs spread Very wide, with a small pile of pillows under my hips. Of course...that's another favorite giving position...so I may be confusing things. And so long as I'm wishing...this morning I'd add a second person to nibble on my nipples, greedy little girl that I am.

Re: 69....I thought I was an oddball who didn't get the point when I first tried it. I think the phrase "hey, knock it off, I'm busy over here" went through my mind at one point. Then I heard a great piece of advice that made it much more fun. It's not gonna be a chance to demonstrate great technique, control, or creativity. Stick to the absolute basics (suck, lick, no biting) and enjoy the ride. All of a sudden it graduated from foreplay to fireworks. And it's lovely to be told that you can get someone off just by moaning down his dick ;-).

GingerV - show me, please. *LOL*

On my knees looking up at him whilst I tease.

I am assuming the position....

I prefer him sitting against the back of the bed w/me lying tummy down on the bed or me perpendicular to him so that he can reach my breasts or between my legs at the same time; or, to awaken him while he is sleeping, him on his side w/me on my opposite side facing him; or him on his back w/me kneeling over him; or me on my back on the bed w/my head hanging over the edge and him standing over me in a face-f**k position so he can play w/my breasts as I play w/myself. Me on my knees facing him unless HE sees that as putting me in a degrading position--then forget it.

Don't have enough experience on the receiving end to say, but I'd probably prefer to be lying down on my back.

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