Wow...

all I can say Flywater is that my thoughts are with you... and that I am sorry for the emotional turmoil.... I wish you well... and hope that you find yourself happier than ever before... and soon..

Hugs..

I wanted to take a moment and thank you all for your kind and heartfelt comments. I am doing my best to keep my chin up and patiently waiting and looking. Thanks again to all of you.

Glad to see you back FW.:)

The only common thing we all know is that your experience is not a good one. After that, NOBODY else knows what is going on for you. Most of the time the people involved don’t understand it, so I have no advise for what you should do. Only one insight of what you shouldn’t do.

Don’t go looking. Don’t go hunting. Don’t go searching. What you may hope to sometime find is not under a rock or in the shadows. A person to spend some time of your life with is where the kind of life you want is going on. Go looking for life. The kind of person you can share it with is doing it alone right now, …. the same as you. A relationship is not a ‘FIND’, it’s a ‘HAPPENING’.


Just one prospective pal. Go find yours. ;)

PF... you are one smart man :) I hope that Flywater follows your advice...

PF, thank you for that very valuable advise! I will take it too heart and try my best to follow it! Thank you again for all your help and concern.

After being gone awhile I had to come back and say hi to all the people who supported me and shared their thoughts and advise. I am doing much better now, having met someone and the relationship is progressing nicely. We are both a bit gunshy, her being in a same situation, but things are going very well. As I was going through old posts, I came across this from PF and after rereading it, was amazed at the insight! I can only hope that I am wise enough to share advice like this when someone asks me!

To all my pixie friends, thank you and it has been great! Hopefully it will get better! Looking forward to hearing from you all again and I am looking forward to posting again!

BTW, happy belated new year!