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Lisa976 09-17-2007 03:29 PM

Here's how to use this checklist. For each question below just place an x next to any item that interests you.

Are there any specific types of people that turn you on?
[X ] Soldiers, marines, paratroopers
[X ] Sailors, coast guard, merchant marine
[ ] Airmen, pilots
[ ] Policemen, security people
[ ] Truck drivers
[ X] Firemen
[ ] Executioners
[X ] Nurses, doctors
[ ] Prostitutes, tramps
[ ] Hunters
[ ] Wrestlers
[X ] Surfers, life guards
[ ] Motorcycle people, Hells Angels
[ ] Cowboys, farm boys
[X ] Gentlemen, nobility
[ ] Business people, yuppies, managers
[ ] Servants
[ ] Teachers
[ ] Daddy, uncle
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

Which of the following scenes would turn you on?
[X ] Having a romantic dinner by candlelight
[X ] I am spanked because I have been a naughty girl
[X ] I am in the woods and suddenly this man comes from behind and grabs me
[X ] A stranger walks into my bedroom and finds me playing with myself
[X ] My partner and I are making love in a public place
[ ] I am are sold on a slave market
[ ] I am used as a slave in public
[X ] I am used as a slave in private
[X ] I am ordered to please others
[X ] I am a little schoolgirl
[X ] I am sitting/kneeling at my Master's feet
[X ] I am are tied and teased
[X ] I am grabbed by the hair and dragged into the bedroom
[ ] I am used as a dog, pony or pet
[ ] I am verbally humiliated
[X ] I am tied, gagged and blindfolded and left alone
[X ] I am tied, gagged, blindfolded and thoroughly whipped
[X ] My physical limits are tested and stretched
[X ] My mental limits are tested and stretched
[ ] I have to sign a contract
[ ] I am a total slave every day of the week
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

Is there any particular clothing or fabric that turns you on?
[X ] Leather
[ ] Rubber, latex
[X ] Patent leather, PVC
[X ] Sexy lingerie
[X ] Uniforms
[X ] Denim
[ ] High Heels
[X ] Boots
[ ] Wet suits
[ ] Servants uniform
[ ] Masks
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

Do any of the following environments or scenery turn you on?
[X ] Your bedroom
[X ] A dungeon, castle
[ ] Churches and abbeys
[ ] Farms and stables
[X ] Barracks
[ ] Abandoned construction sites
[ ] Back alleys
[ ] The red light district
[ ] A school or a classroom
[X ] BDSM-clubs
[ ] Estates
[ ] Junkyards and car dumps
[X ] Woods and forests
[X ] Medieval scenery
[ ] Nudist beaches
[X ] Parking spaces
[ ] Truck stops
[X ] The bath room
[X ] Hospital, dentist
[ ] Interrogation room
[ ] The shrink's couch
[X ] Boot camp
[ ] Jail, police station
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

I enjoy the following psychodrama(s):
[X ] The dominant talks, the submissive is silent or speaks only when spoken to
[X ] Dialogue in normal language
[X ] Dialogue in adapted language ("Master" and "slave")
[X ] Obey rules or else
[X ] Reasonable rules
[X ] Unreasonable rules
[ ] It is OK for the dominant to loose his temper
[X ] Swearing and filthy talk
[X ] Military/jail type commands
[X ] Strict training
[X ] Obvious and explicit role play
[X ] Subtle role play
[ ] I like to be persuaded, rather than commanded
[ ] Make me feel guilty
[ ] Make me feel cheap
[X ] Make me feel used
[X ] Make me feel owned
[ ] Make me feel useless
[ ] Objectify me
[ ] The dominant must have compassion
[ ] The dominant must have no compassion at all
[X ] The dominant must only have compassion after the scene
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

Sex and sexuality
[X ] I need to be sexually aroused when in scene
[X ] I need to be sexually aroused before I enter into a scene
[X ] I like as many orgasms as I can get
[ ] An orgasm turns me off
[ ] An orgasm must only be allowed as a reward
[ ] An orgasm is a must to end the scene
[ ] Orgasms are not important, but nice
[ ] Orgasms are not important at all
[X ] I want to beg for an orgasm first
[X ] I want my sexual abilities to be stretched
[X ] I want/need sex during a scene
[ ] I want no sex during a scene
[X ] Sex should be used to relieve the tension
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

I love the following attributes
[X ] Ropes
[ X] Leather cuffs and belts
[ X] Steel cuffs and chains
[ ] Ball and chain
[X ] Blindfold
[ ] Gags
[ ] Masks
[X ] Nipple clamps and clothespins
[X ] Whips
[X ] Riding crops
[ ] Canes
[X ] Silk to be tied with
[X ] Sex toys (vibrators, butt plugs)
[X ] Needles and pins
[X ] Cross, rack
[X ] Bondage table
[X ] Cage
[ ] Sling
[ ] Body bag
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

The following scenes appeal to me:
[X ] Being tied up, caressed and loved
[X ] Being in a public place and dominated in a subtle way
[ ] Being taken out with collar and leash
[ ] Being locked up and left alone
[X ] Being tied up in a comfortable position
[X ] Being tied up in discomfort
[X ] Being tied up and (in a sexual way) exposed
[ ] Being tied up and tickled
[X ] Being tied up and (sexually) teased
[X ] Being tied up and whipped, flogged or caned
[X ] Not being tied up, but verbally commanded into certain positions and having to maintain these
[X ] Caned, flogged or whipped without being tied or cuffed
[X ] Being spanked in the traditional way
[X ] Rough sex/being "raped"
[ ] Used as a servant
[X ] Being tied and tortured
[X ] Being tortured without being tied or cuffed
[ ] Being used by more than one dominant
[ ] Playing in combination with other couples
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

Safe words and signals
[X ] The dominant should establish one or more safe words
[ ] When I cry, the scene should stop
[ ] I should be able to communicate in plain language
[X ] The dominant should be able to read my body language
[ ] I want to be tested when I use a safe word or signal
[X ] All activity should stop immediately when I use a safe word or signal
[ ] I do not want to use any safe word at all and my signals should be ignored completely
[X ] When I use a safe word or signal the dominant should establish if the scene can continue
[ X] A scene should go on up to the point where I use a safe word or signal
[ X] The use of safe words and signals should be avoided as much as possible
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

To me erotic power exchange is:
[ ] Something I like incidentally, just as a kick
[ ] Something I like, but not too often
[X ] Something I want as much as possible
[X ] A lifestyle that I consider important and want to practice as much as possible
[x ] A lifestyle that should be present at all times
[ X] My way of life
[ ] The most important thing I can think of
[ ] Something I want exercised at all times and no matter what the consequences are.
Others, please specify:
__________________

VeryLonelyMan 09-26-2007 10:37 AM

Now I just want to say some of these are my personal kinks and some of these I would love to do with a SO. Enjoy.

Here's how to use this checklist. For each question below just place an x next to any item that interests you.

Are there any specific types of people that turn you on?
[x] Soldiers, marines, paratroopers
[ ] Sailors, coast guard, merchant marine
[ ] Airmen, pilots
[x] Policemen, security people
[ ] Truck drivers
[ ] Firemen
[ ] Executioners
[x] Nurses, doctors
[x] Prostitutes, tramps
[ ] Hunters
[ ] Wrestlers
[ ] Surfers, life guards
[x] Motorcycle people, Hells Angels
[ ] Cowboys, farm boys
[ ] Gentlemen, nobility
[ ] Business people, yuppies, managers
[x] Servants
[x] Teachers
[ ] Daddy, uncle
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

Which of the following scenes would turn you on?
[x] Having a romantic dinner by candlelight
[x] I am spanked because I have been a naughty girl
[x] I am in the woods and suddenly this man comes from behind and grabs me
[x] A stranger walks into my bedroom and finds me playing with myself
[x] My partner and I are making love in a public place
[x] I am are sold on a slave market
[x] I am used as a slave in public
[x] I am used as a slave in private
[x] I am ordered to please others
[x] I am a little schoolgirl
[x] I am sitting/kneeling at my Master's feet
[x] I am are tied and teased
[x] I am grabbed by the hair and dragged into the bedroom
[ ] I am used as a dog, pony or pet
[x] I am verbally humiliated
[x] I am tied, gagged and blindfolded and left alone
[x] I am tied, gagged, blindfolded and thoroughly whipped
[x] My physical limits are tested and stretched
[x] My mental limits are tested and stretched
[ ] I have to sign a contract
[ ] I am a total slave every day of the week
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

Is there any particular clothing or fabric that turns you on?
[x] Leather
[ ] Rubber, latex
[ ] Patent leather, PVC
[x] Sexy lingerie
[x] Uniforms
[x] Denim
[x] High Heels
[x] Boots
[ ] Wet suits
[x] Servants uniform
[ ] Masks
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

Do any of the following environments or scenery turn you on?
[x] Your bedroom
[x] A dungeon, castle
[x] Churches and abbeys
[x] Farms and stables
[ ] Barracks
[x] Abandoned construction sites
[x] Back alleys
[x] The red light district
[x] A school or a classroom
[x] BDSM-clubs
[x] Estates
[x] Junkyards and car dumps
[x] Woods and forests
[x] Medieval scenery
[x] Nudist beaches
[x] Parking spaces
[x] Truck stops
[x] The bath room
[ ] Hospital, dentist
[ ] Interrogation room
[ ] The shrink's couch
[ ] Boot camp
[ ] Jail, police station
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

I enjoy the following psychodrama(s):
[x] The dominant talks, the submissive is silent or speaks only when spoken to
[x] Dialogue in normal language
[x] Dialogue in adapted language ("Master" and "slave")
[x] Obey rules or else
[x] Reasonable rules
[ ] Unreasonable rules
[ ] It is OK for the dominant to loose his temper
[x] Swearing and filthy talk
[ ] Military/jail type commands
[ ] Strict training
[x] Obvious and explicit role play
[x] Subtle role play
[x] I like to be persuaded, rather than commanded
[ ] Make me feel guilty
[ ] Make me feel cheap
[ ] Make me feel used
[ ] Make me feel owned
[ ] Make me feel useless
[ ] Objectify me
[x] The dominant must have compassion
[ ] The dominant must have no compassion at all
[ ] The dominant must only have compassion after the scene
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

Sex and sexuality
[ ] I need to be sexually aroused when in scene
[ ] I need to be sexually aroused before I enter into a scene
[x] I like as many orgasms as I can get
[ ] An orgasm turns me off
[ ] An orgasm must only be allowed as a reward
[x] An orgasm is a must to end the scene
[ ] Orgasms are not important, but nice
[ ] Orgasms are not important at all
[x] I want to beg for an orgasm first
[x] I want my sexual abilities to be stretched
[x] I want/need sex during a scene
[ ] I want no sex during a scene
[x] Sex should be used to relieve the tension
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

I love the following attributes
[x] Ropes
[x] Leather cuffs and belts
[ ] Steel cuffs and chains
[ ] Ball and chain
[x] Blindfold
[x] Gags
[ ] Masks
[x] Nipple clamps and clothespins
[x] Whips
[x] Riding crops
[ ] Canes
[x] Silk to be tied with
[x] Sex toys (vibrators, butt plugs)
[ ] Needles and pins
[ ] Cross, rack
[ ] Bondage table
[x] Cage
[x] Sling
[ ] Body bag
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

The following scenes appeal to me:
[x] Being tied up, caressed and loved
[x] Being in a public place and dominated in a subtle way
[x] Being taken out with collar and leash
[ ] Being locked up and left alone
[x] Being tied up in a comfortable position
[ ] Being tied up in discomfort
[x] Being tied up and (in a sexual way) exposed
[x] Being tied up and tickled
[x] Being tied up and (sexually) teased
[x] Being tied up and whipped, flogged or caned
[x] Not being tied up, but verbally commanded into certain positions and having to maintain these
[x] Caned, flogged or whipped without being tied or cuffed
[x] Being spanked in the traditional way
[x] Rough sex/being "raped"
[x] Used as a servant
[x] Being tied and tortured
[x] Being tortured without being tied or cuffed
[x] Being used by more than one dominant
[x] Playing in combination with other couples
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

Safe words and signals
[x] The dominant should establish one or more safe words
[ ] When I cry, the scene should stop
[x] I should be able to communicate in plain language
[ ] The dominant should be able to read my body language
[ ] I want to be tested when I use a safe word or signal
[x] All activity should stop immediately when I use a safe word or signal
[ ] I do not want to use any safe word at all and my signals should be ignored completely
[ ] When I use a safe word or signal the dominant should establish if the scene can continue
[ ] A scene should go on up to the point where I use a safe word or signal
[ ] The use of safe words and signals should be avoided as much as possible
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

To me erotic power exchange is:
[ ] Something I like incidentally, just as a kick
[ ] Something I like, but not too often
[ ] Something I want as much as possible
[ ] A lifestyle that I consider important and want to practice as much as possible
[ ] A lifestyle that should be present at all times
[ ] My way of life
[ ] The most important thing I can think of
[ ] Something I want exercised at all times and no matter what the consequences are.
Others, please specify:[/QUOTE]

txgrneyes 09-27-2007 12:06 AM

Quote:
Originally Posted by WildIrish
Do any of the following environments or scenery turn you on?
[ ] A dungeon, castle
[ ] Woods and forests
[ ] Medieval scenery



If so...just sayin ;)



We have this here in TX...and we also have cowboys...

http://www.medievaltimes.com/theshow.htm

jaycee51 10-10-2007 08:36 PM

filling out checklist
 
I hate to admit it but I missed the boat. How do you fill out the check list, all I could think of was to paste it here and fill it out, but doesnt look like thats how it supposed to be done.

Lilith 10-10-2007 09:07 PM

copy it and paste it into the reply box and then X your choices

WildIrish 10-11-2007 10:56 AM

Quote:
Originally Posted by Lilith
copy it and paste it into the reply box and then X your choices



Or you could just scream "yes" or "no" when Lilith starts doing something.






Not that she'll listen. :p

ReaperWoman 10-11-2007 05:23 PM

Some of the things I've ticked in the "attributes" section are things I would certainly love to try, rather than things I know I love.

Are there any specific types of people that turn you on?
[ ] Soldiers, marines, paratroopers
[ ] Sailors, coast guard, merchant marine
[ ] Airmen, pilots
[ ] Policemen, security people
[ ] Truck drivers
[ ] Firemen
[ ] Executioners
[ ] Nurses, doctors
[ ] Prostitutes, tramps
[ ] Hunters
[ ] Wrestlers
[ ] Surfers, life guards
[ ] Motorcycle people, Hells Angels
[ ] Cowboys, farm boys
[ ] Gentlemen, nobility
[ ] Business people, yuppies, managers
[ ] Servants
[ ] Teachers
[ ] Daddy, uncle
X Others, please specify: Superheroes ;)

Which of the following scenes would turn you on?
[X ] Having a romantic dinner by candlelight
[X ] I am spanked because I have been a naughty girl
[ ] I am in the woods and suddenly this man comes from behind and grabs me
[X ] A stranger walks into my bedroom and finds me playing with myself
[X ] My partner and I are making love in a public place
[X ] I am are sold on a slave market
[ ] I am used as a slave in public
[ ] I am used as a slave in private
[X ] I am ordered to please others
[ ] I am a little schoolgirl
[X ] I am sitting/kneeling at my Master's feet
[X ] I am are tied and teased
[ ] I am grabbed by the hair and dragged into the bedroom
[ ] I am used as a dog, pony or pet
[ ] I am verbally humiliated
[X ] I am tied, gagged and blindfolded and left alone
[ ] I am tied, gagged, blindfolded and thoroughly whipped
[ ] My physical limits are tested and stretched
[X ] My mental limits are tested and stretched
[ ] I have to sign a contract
[ ] I am a total slave every day of the week
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

Is there any particular clothing or fabric that turns you on?
[X ] Leather
[ ] Rubber, latex
[X ] Patent leather, PVC
[X ] Sexy lingerie
[ ] Uniforms
[ ] Denim
[X ] High Heels
[X ] Boots
[ ] Wet suits
[ ] Servants uniform
[X ] Masks
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

Do any of the following environments or scenery turn you on?
[X ] Your bedroom
[X ] A dungeon, castle
[X ] Churches and abbeys
[ ] Farms and stables
[ ] Barracks
[ ] Abandoned construction sites
[ ] Back alleys
[ ] The red light district
[ ] A school or a classroom
[ ] BDSM-clubs
[ ] Estates
[ ] Junkyards and car dumps
[X ] Woods and forests
[X ] Medieval scenery
[ ] Nudist beaches
[ ] Parking spaces
[ ] Truck stops
[ ] The bath room
[ ] Hospital, dentist
[X ] Interrogation room
[X ] The shrink's couch
[ ] Boot camp
[ ] Jail, police station
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

I enjoy the following psychodrama(s):
[X ] The dominant talks, the submissive is silent or speaks only when spoken to
[X ] Dialogue in normal language
[X ] Dialogue in adapted language ("Master" and "slave")
[X ] Obey rules or else
[ ] Reasonable rules
[ ] Unreasonable rules
[ ] It is OK for the dominant to loose his temper
[X ] Swearing and filthy talk
[ ] Military/jail type commands
[X ] Strict training
[ ] Obvious and explicit role play
[X ] Subtle role play
[ ] I like to be persuaded, rather than commanded
[ ] Make me feel guilty
[ ] Make me feel cheap
[ ] Make me feel used
[X ] Make me feel owned
[ ] Make me feel useless
[ ] Objectify me
[ ] The dominant must have compassion
[ ] The dominant must have no compassion at all
[ ] The dominant must only have compassion after the scene
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

Sex and sexuality
[X ] I need to be sexually aroused when in scene
[ ] I need to be sexually aroused before I enter into a scene
[ ] I like as many orgasms as I can get
[ ] An orgasm turns me off
[ ] An orgasm must only be allowed as a reward
[ ] An orgasm is a must to end the scene
[X ] Orgasms are not important, but nice
[ ] Orgasms are not important at all
[ ] I want to beg for an orgasm first
[X ] I want my sexual abilities to be stretched
[X ] I want sex during a scene - But don't always get ;)
[ ] I want no sex during a scene
[ ] Sex should be used to relieve the tension
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

I love the following attributes
[X ] Ropes
[X ] Leather cuffs and belts
[ ] Steel cuffs and chains
[ ] Ball and chain
[X ] Blindfold
[X ] Gags
[X ] Masks
[X ] Nipple clamps and clothespins
[X ] Whips
[ ] Riding crops
[ ] Canes
[XXX ] Silk to be tied with
[X ] Sex toys (vibrators, butt plugs)
[ ] Needles and pins
[ ] Cross, rack
[ ] Bondage table
[X ] Cage
[ ] Sling
[ ] Body bag
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

The following scenes appeal to me:
[X ] Being tied up, caressed and loved
[ ] Being in a public place and dominated in a subtle way
[X ] Being taken out with collar and leash
[X ] Being locked up and left alone
[X ] Being tied up in a comfortable position
[ ] Being tied up in discomfort
[X ] Being tied up and (in a sexual way) exposed
[ ] Being tied up and tickled
[X ] Being tied up and (sexually) teased
[X ] Being tied up and whipped, flogged or caned
[X ] Not being tied up, but verbally commanded into certain positions and having to maintain these
[ ] Caned, flogged or whipped without being tied or cuffed
[X ] Being spanked in the traditional way
[ ] Rough sex/being "raped"
[X ] Used as a servant
[ ] Being tied and tortured
[ ] Being tortured without being tied or cuffed
[X ] Being used by more than one dominant
[ ] Playing in combination with other couples
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

Safe words and signals
[X ] The dominant should establish one or more safe words
[ ] When I cry, the scene should stop
[X ] I should be able to communicate in plain language
[X ] The dominant should be able to read my body language
[ ] I want to be tested when I use a safe word or signal
[ ] All activity should stop immediately when I use a safe word or signal
[ ] I do not want to use any safe word at all and my signals should be ignored completely
[ ] When I use a safe word or signal the dominant should establish if the scene can continue
[ ] A scene should go on up to the point where I use a safe word or signal
[ ] The use of safe words and signals should be avoided as much as possible
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

To me erotic power exchange is:
[ ] Something I like incidentally, just as a kick
[X ] Something I like, but not too often
[ ] Something I want as much as possible
[ ] A lifestyle that I consider important and want to practice as much as possible
[ ] A lifestyle that should be present at all times
[ ] My way of life
[ ] The most important thing I can think of
[ ] Something I want exercised at all times and no matter what the consequences are.
Others, please specify: Something I hope to explore more of... Being a switch makes it interesting too. :D

Aqua 10-11-2007 05:53 PM

Quote:
Originally Posted by ReaperWoman
X Others, please specify: Superheroes ;)

Just so you don't forget... Aquaman is a Superhero. ;)

:D

jaycee51 10-13-2007 09:56 AM

Are there any specific types of people that turn you on?
[ ] Soldiers, marines, paratroopers
[ ] Sailors, coast guard, merchant marine
[ ] Airmen, pilots
[ ] Policemen, security people
[ ] Truck drivers
[ ] Firemen
[ ] Executioners
[ xx] Nurses, doctors
[ ] Prostitutes, tramps
[ ] Hunters
[ ] Wrestlers
[ ] Surfers, life guards
[ ] Motorcycle people, Hells Angels
[ ] Cowboys, farm boys
[ ] Gentlemen, nobility
[ ] Business people, yuppies, managers
[ ] Servants
[ ] Teachers
[ ] Daddy, uncle
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

Which of the following scenes would turn you on?
[ ] Having a romantic dinner by candlelight
[ ] I am spanked because I have been a naughty girl
[ ] I am in the woods and suddenly this man comes from behind and grabs me
[ x] A stranger walks into my bedroom and finds me playing with myself
[ ] My partner and I are making love in a public place
[ ] I am are sold on a slave market
[ ] I am used as a slave in public
[ ] I am used as a slave in private
[ ] I am ordered to please others
[ ] I am a little schoolgirl
[ ] I am sitting/kneeling at my Master's feet
[ x] I am are tied and teased
[ ] I am grabbed by the hair and dragged into the bedroom
[ ] I am used as a dog, pony or pet
[ ] I am verbally humiliated
[ x] I am tied, gagged and blindfolded and left alone
[ ] I am tied, gagged, blindfolded and thoroughly whipped
[ ] My physical limits are tested and stretched
[ ] My mental limits are tested and stretched
[ ] I have to sign a contract
[ ] I am a total slave every day of the week
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

Is there any particular clothing or fabric that turns you on?
[ ] Leather
[ ] Rubber, latex
[ ] Patent leather, PVC
[ x] Sexy lingerie
[ ] Uniforms
[ ] Denim
[ ] High Heels
[ ] Boots
[ ] Wet suits
[ ] Servants uniform
[ ] Masks
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

Do any of the following environments or scenery turn you on?
[ x] Your bedroom
[ x] A dungeon, castle
[ ] Churches and abbeys
[ ] Farms and stables
[ ] Barracks
[ ] Abandoned construction sites
[ ] Back alleys
[ ] The red light district
[ ] A school or a classroom
[ ] BDSM-clubs
[ ] Estates
[ ] Junkyards and car dumps
[x ] Woods and forests
[ ] Medieval scenery
[ ] Nudist beaches
[ ] Parking spaces
[ ] Truck stops
[ ] The bath room
[ ] Hospital, dentist
[ ] Interrogation room
[ ] The shrink's couch
[ ] Boot camp
[ ] Jail, police station
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

I enjoy the following psychodrama(s):
[ ] The dominant talks, the submissive is silent or speaks only when spoken to
[ ] Dialogue in normal language
[ ] Dialogue in adapted language ("Master" and "slave")
[ ] Obey rules or else
[ ] Reasonable rules
[ ] Unreasonable rules
[ ] It is OK for the dominant to loose his temper
[ ] Swearing and filthy talk
[ ] Military/jail type commands
[ ] Strict training
[ x] Obvious and explicit role play
[ ] Subtle role play
[ ] I like to be persuaded, rather than commanded
[ ] Make me feel guilty
[ ] Make me feel cheap
[x ] Make me feel used
[ ] Make me feel owned
[ ] Make me feel useless
[ ] Objectify me
[ xx] The dominant must have compassion
[ ] The dominant must have no compassion at all
[ ] The dominant must only have compassion after the scene
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

Sex and sexuality
[ ] I need to be sexually aroused when in scene
[ ] I need to be sexually aroused before I enter into a scene
x] I like as many orgasms as I can get
[ ] An orgasm turns me off
[ x] An orgasm must only be allowed as a reward
[ ] An orgasm is a must to end the scene
[ ] Orgasms are not important, but nice
[ ] Orgasms are not important at all
[ x] I want to beg for an orgasm first
[ xx] I want my sexual abilities to be stretched
[ x] I want/need sex during a scene
[ ] I want no sex during a scene
[ ] Sex should be used to relieve the tension
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

I love the following attributes
[ xx] Ropes
[x] Leather cuffs and belts
[ x] Steel cuffs and chains
[ ] Ball and chain
[ xx] Blindfold
[ ] Gags
[ ] Masks
[ ] Nipple clamps and clothespins
[ ] Whips
[ ] Riding crops
[ ] Canes
[ ] Silk to be tied with
[ x] Sex toys (vibrators, butt plugs)
[ ] Needles and pins
[ ] Cross, rack
[ ] Bondage table
[ ] Cage
[ ] Sling
[ ] Body bag
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

The following scenes appeal to me:
[ x] Being tied up, caressed and loved
[ ] Being in a public place and dominated in a subtle way
[ ] Being taken out with collar and leash
[ ] Being locked up and left alone
[ x] Being tied up in a comfortable position
[ ] Being tied up in discomfort
[ ] Being tied up and (in a sexual way) exposed
[ ] Being tied up and tickled
[ x] Being tied up and (sexually) teased
[ ] Being tied up and whipped, flogged or caned
[ ] Not being tied up, but verbally commanded into certain positions and having to maintain these
[ ] Caned, flogged or whipped without being tied or cuffed
[ ] Being spanked in the traditional way
[ ] Rough sex/being "raped"
[ ] Used as a servant
[ ] Being tied and tortured
[ ] Being tortured without being tied or cuffed
[ ] Being used by more than one dominant
[ ] Playing in combination with other couples
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

Safe words and signals
[ x] The dominant should establish one or more safe words
[ ] When I cry, the scene should stop
[ ] I should be able to communicate in plain language
[ ] The dominant should be able to read my body language
[ ] I want to be tested when I use a safe word or signal
[ ] All activity should stop immediately when I use a safe word or signal
[ ] I do not want to use any safe word at all and my signals should be ignored completely
[ x] When I use a safe word or signal the dominant should establish if the scene can continue
[ ] A scene should go on up to the point where I use a safe word or signal
[ ] The use of safe words and signals should be avoided as much as possible
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

To me erotic power exchange is:
[ ] Something I like incidentally, just as a kick
[ x] Something I like, but not too often
[ ] Something I want as much as possible
[ ] A lifestyle that I consider important and want to practice as much as possible
[ ] A lifestyle that should be present at all times
[ ] My way of life
[ ] The most important thing I can think of
[ ] Something I want exercised at all times and no matter what the consequences are.
Others, please specify:
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kinky-bi-nature 10-13-2007 05:06 PM

First ever post, be gentle... :wave:

Are there any specific types of people that turn you on?
[ ] Soldiers, marines, paratroopers
[ ] Sailors, coast guard, merchant marine
[ ] Airmen, pilots
[ ] Policemen, security people
[ ] Truck drivers
[ ] Firemen
[ ] Executioners
[ ] Nurses, doctors
[ ] Prostitutes, tramps
[ ] Hunters
[ ] Wrestlers
[ ] Surfers, life guards
[ ] Motorcycle people, Hells Angels
[ ] Cowboys, farm boys
[ ] Gentlemen, nobility
[ ] Business people, yuppies, managers
[ ] Servants
[ ] Teachers
[ ] Daddy, uncle
Others, please specify: Therapists/Shrinks

Which of the following scenes would turn you on?
[X] Having a romantic dinner by candlelight
[ ] I am spanked because I have been a naughty girl
[ ] I am in the woods and suddenly this man comes from behind and grabs me
[ ] A stranger walks into my bedroom and finds me playing with myself
[X] My partner and I are making love in a public place
[ ] I am are sold on a slave market
[ ] I am used as a slave in public
[X] I am used as a slave in private
[X] I am ordered to please others
[ ] I am a little schoolgirl
[X] I am sitting/kneeling at my Master's feet
[X] I am are tied and teased
[ ] I am grabbed by the hair and dragged into the bedroom
[ ] I am used as a dog, pony or pet
[ ] I am verbally humiliated
[X] I am tied, gagged and blindfolded and left alone
[ ] I am tied, gagged, blindfolded and thoroughly whipped
[ ] My physical limits are tested and stretched
[X] My mental limits are tested and stretched
[ ] I have to sign a contract
[ ] I am a total slave every day of the week
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

Is there any particular clothing or fabric that turns you on?
[X] Leather
[X] Rubber, latex
[X] Patent leather, PVC
[X] Sexy lingerie
[ ] Uniforms
[ ] Denim
[X] High Heels
[X] Boots
[ ] Wet suits
[ ] Servants uniform
[X] Masks
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

Do any of the following environments or scenery turn you on?
[X] Your bedroom
[X] A dungeon, castle
[ ] Churches and abbeys
[ ] Farms and stables
[ ] Barracks
[ ] Abandoned construction sites
[ ] Back alleys
[ ] The red light district
[ ] A school or a classroom
[X] BDSM-clubs
[ ] Estates
[ ] Junkyards and car dumps
[X] Woods and forests
[ ] Medieval scenery
[ ] Nudist beaches
[ ] Parking spaces
[ ] Truck stops
[ ] The bath room
[ ] Hospital, dentist
[X] Interrogation room
[X] The shrink's couch
[ ] Boot camp
[ ] Jail, police station
Others, please specify: Trains/Planes

I enjoy the following psychodrama(s):
[X] The dominant talks, the submissive is silent or speaks only when spoken to
[ ] Dialogue in normal language
[X] Dialogue in adapted language ("Master" and "slave")
[X] Obey rules or else (only if rules have been clearly established)
[ ] Reasonable rules
[ ] Unreasonable rules
[ ] It is OK for the dominant to loose his temper
[X] Swearing and filthy talk
[ ] Military/jail type commands
[X] Strict training
[X] Obvious and explicit role play
[X] Subtle role play
[ ] I like to be persuaded, rather than commanded
[ ] Make me feel guilty
[ ] Make me feel cheap
[ ] Make me feel used
[X] Make me feel owned
[ ] Make me feel useless
[ ] Objectify me
[X] The dominant must have compassion
[ ] The dominant must have no compassion at all
[ ] The dominant must only have compassion after the scene
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

Sex and sexuality
[X] I need to be sexually aroused when in scene
[ ] I need to be sexually aroused before I enter into a scene
[ ] I like as many orgasms as I can get
[ ] An orgasm turns me off
[ ] An orgasm must only be allowed as a reward
[ ] An orgasm is a must to end the scene
[X] Orgasms are not important, but nice
[ ] Orgasms are not important at all
[X] I want to beg for an orgasm first
[X] I want my sexual abilities to be stretched
[ ] I want/need sex during a scene
[ ] I want no sex during a scene
[ ] Sex should be used to relieve the tension
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

I love the following attributes
[X] Ropes
[X] Leather cuffs and belts
[X] Steel cuffs and chains
[ ] Ball and chain
[X] Blindfold
[X] Gags
[X] Masks
[X] Nipple clamps and clothespins
[X] Whips
[ ] Riding crops
[ ] Canes
[X] Silk to be tied with
[X] Sex toys (vibrators, butt plugs)
[ ] Needles and pins
[X] Cross, rack
[X] Bondage table
[X] Cage
[ ] Sling
[X] Body bag
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

The following scenes appeal to me:
[X] Being tied up, caressed and loved
[X] Being in a public place and dominated in a subtle way
[X] Being taken out with collar and leash
[X] Being locked up and left alone
[X] Being tied up in a comfortable position
[ ] Being tied up in discomfort
[X] Being tied up and (in a sexual way) exposed
[ ] Being tied up and tickled
[X] Being tied up and (sexually) teased
[ ] Being tied up and whipped, flogged or caned
[X] Not being tied up, but verbally commanded into certain positions and having to maintain these
[ ] Caned, flogged or whipped without being tied or cuffed
[X] Being spanked in the traditional way
[ ] Rough sex/being "raped"
[ ] Used as a servant
[ ] Being tied and tortured
[ ] Being tortured without being tied or cuffed
[X] Being used by more than one dominant
[ ] Playing in combination with other couples
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

Safe words and signals
[ ] The dominant should establish one or more safe words
[ ] When I cry, the scene should stop
[X] I should be able to communicate in plain language
[X] The dominant should be able to read my body language
[ ] I want to be tested when I use a safe word or signal
[ ] All activity should stop immediately when I use a safe word or signal
[ ] I do not want to use any safe word at all and my signals should be ignored completely
[ ] When I use a safe word or signal the dominant should establish if the scene can continue
[ ] A scene should go on up to the point where I use a safe word or signal
[ ] The use of safe words and signals should be avoided as much as possible
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

To me erotic power exchange is:
[ ] Something I like incidentally, just as a kick
[X] Something I like, but not too often
[ ] Something I want as much as possible
[ ] A lifestyle that I consider important and want to practice as much as possible
[ ] A lifestyle that should be present at all times
[ ] My way of life
[ ] The most important thing I can think of
[ ] Something I want exercised at all times and no matter what the consequences are.
Others, please specify:

Lilith 10-13-2007 10:01 PM

After reading that^^^ I'm not sure you really like gentle ;)

kinky-bi-nature 10-17-2007 07:21 PM

hehe ^^^

Whilst I crossed many items, all of them aren't things I've necessarily experienced 'yet'...


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