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Here's how to use this checklist. For each question below just place an x next to any item that interests you.
Are there any specific types of people that turn you on? [X ] Soldiers, marines, paratroopers [X ] Sailors, coast guard, merchant marine [ ] Airmen, pilots [ ] Policemen, security people [ ] Truck drivers [ X] Firemen [ ] Executioners [X ] Nurses, doctors [ ] Prostitutes, tramps [ ] Hunters [ ] Wrestlers [X ] Surfers, life guards [ ] Motorcycle people, Hells Angels [ ] Cowboys, farm boys [X ] Gentlemen, nobility [ ] Business people, yuppies, managers [ ] Servants [ ] Teachers [ ] Daddy, uncle Others, please specify: ___________________________________ Which of the following scenes would turn you on? [X ] Having a romantic dinner by candlelight [X ] I am spanked because I have been a naughty girl [X ] I am in the woods and suddenly this man comes from behind and grabs me [X ] A stranger walks into my bedroom and finds me playing with myself [X ] My partner and I are making love in a public place [ ] I am are sold on a slave market [ ] I am used as a slave in public [X ] I am used as a slave in private [X ] I am ordered to please others [X ] I am a little schoolgirl [X ] I am sitting/kneeling at my Master's feet [X ] I am are tied and teased [X ] I am grabbed by the hair and dragged into the bedroom [ ] I am used as a dog, pony or pet [ ] I am verbally humiliated [X ] I am tied, gagged and blindfolded and left alone [X ] I am tied, gagged, blindfolded and thoroughly whipped [X ] My physical limits are tested and stretched [X ] My mental limits are tested and stretched [ ] I have to sign a contract [ ] I am a total slave every day of the week Others, please specify: ___________________________________ Is there any particular clothing or fabric that turns you on? [X ] Leather [ ] Rubber, latex [X ] Patent leather, PVC [X ] Sexy lingerie [X ] Uniforms [X ] Denim [ ] High Heels [X ] Boots [ ] Wet suits [ ] Servants uniform [ ] Masks Others, please specify: ___________________________________ Do any of the following environments or scenery turn you on? [X ] Your bedroom [X ] A dungeon, castle [ ] Churches and abbeys [ ] Farms and stables [X ] Barracks [ ] Abandoned construction sites [ ] Back alleys [ ] The red light district [ ] A school or a classroom [X ] BDSM-clubs [ ] Estates [ ] Junkyards and car dumps [X ] Woods and forests [X ] Medieval scenery [ ] Nudist beaches [X ] Parking spaces [ ] Truck stops [X ] The bath room [X ] Hospital, dentist [ ] Interrogation room [ ] The shrink's couch [X ] Boot camp [ ] Jail, police station Others, please specify: ___________________________________ I enjoy the following psychodrama(s): [X ] The dominant talks, the submissive is silent or speaks only when spoken to [X ] Dialogue in normal language [X ] Dialogue in adapted language ("Master" and "slave") [X ] Obey rules or else [X ] Reasonable rules [X ] Unreasonable rules [ ] It is OK for the dominant to loose his temper [X ] Swearing and filthy talk [X ] Military/jail type commands [X ] Strict training [X ] Obvious and explicit role play [X ] Subtle role play [ ] I like to be persuaded, rather than commanded [ ] Make me feel guilty [ ] Make me feel cheap [X ] Make me feel used [X ] Make me feel owned [ ] Make me feel useless [ ] Objectify me [ ] The dominant must have compassion [ ] The dominant must have no compassion at all [X ] The dominant must only have compassion after the scene Others, please specify: ___________________________________ Sex and sexuality [X ] I need to be sexually aroused when in scene [X ] I need to be sexually aroused before I enter into a scene [X ] I like as many orgasms as I can get [ ] An orgasm turns me off [ ] An orgasm must only be allowed as a reward [ ] An orgasm is a must to end the scene [ ] Orgasms are not important, but nice [ ] Orgasms are not important at all [X ] I want to beg for an orgasm first [X ] I want my sexual abilities to be stretched [X ] I want/need sex during a scene [ ] I want no sex during a scene [X ] Sex should be used to relieve the tension Others, please specify: ___________________________________ I love the following attributes [X ] Ropes [ X] Leather cuffs and belts [ X] Steel cuffs and chains [ ] Ball and chain [X ] Blindfold [ ] Gags [ ] Masks [X ] Nipple clamps and clothespins [X ] Whips [X ] Riding crops [ ] Canes [X ] Silk to be tied with [X ] Sex toys (vibrators, butt plugs) [X ] Needles and pins [X ] Cross, rack [X ] Bondage table [X ] Cage [ ] Sling [ ] Body bag Others, please specify: ___________________________________ The following scenes appeal to me: [X ] Being tied up, caressed and loved [X ] Being in a public place and dominated in a subtle way [ ] Being taken out with collar and leash [ ] Being locked up and left alone [X ] Being tied up in a comfortable position [X ] Being tied up in discomfort [X ] Being tied up and (in a sexual way) exposed [ ] Being tied up and tickled [X ] Being tied up and (sexually) teased [X ] Being tied up and whipped, flogged or caned [X ] Not being tied up, but verbally commanded into certain positions and having to maintain these [X ] Caned, flogged or whipped without being tied or cuffed [X ] Being spanked in the traditional way [X ] Rough sex/being "raped" [ ] Used as a servant [X ] Being tied and tortured [X ] Being tortured without being tied or cuffed [ ] Being used by more than one dominant [ ] Playing in combination with other couples Others, please specify: ___________________________________ Safe words and signals [X ] The dominant should establish one or more safe words [ ] When I cry, the scene should stop [ ] I should be able to communicate in plain language [X ] The dominant should be able to read my body language [ ] I want to be tested when I use a safe word or signal [X ] All activity should stop immediately when I use a safe word or signal [ ] I do not want to use any safe word at all and my signals should be ignored completely [X ] When I use a safe word or signal the dominant should establish if the scene can continue [ X] A scene should go on up to the point where I use a safe word or signal [ X] The use of safe words and signals should be avoided as much as possible Others, please specify: ___________________________________ To me erotic power exchange is: [ ] Something I like incidentally, just as a kick [ ] Something I like, but not too often [X ] Something I want as much as possible [X ] A lifestyle that I consider important and want to practice as much as possible [x ] A lifestyle that should be present at all times [ X] My way of life [ ] The most important thing I can think of [ ] Something I want exercised at all times and no matter what the consequences are. Others, please specify: __________________ |
Now I just want to say some of these are my personal kinks and some of these I would love to do with a SO. Enjoy.
Here's how to use this checklist. For each question below just place an x next to any item that interests you. Are there any specific types of people that turn you on? [x] Soldiers, marines, paratroopers [ ] Sailors, coast guard, merchant marine [ ] Airmen, pilots [x] Policemen, security people [ ] Truck drivers [ ] Firemen [ ] Executioners [x] Nurses, doctors [x] Prostitutes, tramps [ ] Hunters [ ] Wrestlers [ ] Surfers, life guards [x] Motorcycle people, Hells Angels [ ] Cowboys, farm boys [ ] Gentlemen, nobility [ ] Business people, yuppies, managers [x] Servants [x] Teachers [ ] Daddy, uncle Others, please specify: ___________________________________ Which of the following scenes would turn you on? [x] Having a romantic dinner by candlelight [x] I am spanked because I have been a naughty girl [x] I am in the woods and suddenly this man comes from behind and grabs me [x] A stranger walks into my bedroom and finds me playing with myself [x] My partner and I are making love in a public place [x] I am are sold on a slave market [x] I am used as a slave in public [x] I am used as a slave in private [x] I am ordered to please others [x] I am a little schoolgirl [x] I am sitting/kneeling at my Master's feet [x] I am are tied and teased [x] I am grabbed by the hair and dragged into the bedroom [ ] I am used as a dog, pony or pet [x] I am verbally humiliated [x] I am tied, gagged and blindfolded and left alone [x] I am tied, gagged, blindfolded and thoroughly whipped [x] My physical limits are tested and stretched [x] My mental limits are tested and stretched [ ] I have to sign a contract [ ] I am a total slave every day of the week Others, please specify: ___________________________________ Is there any particular clothing or fabric that turns you on? [x] Leather [ ] Rubber, latex [ ] Patent leather, PVC [x] Sexy lingerie [x] Uniforms [x] Denim [x] High Heels [x] Boots [ ] Wet suits [x] Servants uniform [ ] Masks Others, please specify: ___________________________________ Do any of the following environments or scenery turn you on? [x] Your bedroom [x] A dungeon, castle [x] Churches and abbeys [x] Farms and stables [ ] Barracks [x] Abandoned construction sites [x] Back alleys [x] The red light district [x] A school or a classroom [x] BDSM-clubs [x] Estates [x] Junkyards and car dumps [x] Woods and forests [x] Medieval scenery [x] Nudist beaches [x] Parking spaces [x] Truck stops [x] The bath room [ ] Hospital, dentist [ ] Interrogation room [ ] The shrink's couch [ ] Boot camp [ ] Jail, police station Others, please specify: ___________________________________ I enjoy the following psychodrama(s): [x] The dominant talks, the submissive is silent or speaks only when spoken to [x] Dialogue in normal language [x] Dialogue in adapted language ("Master" and "slave") [x] Obey rules or else [x] Reasonable rules [ ] Unreasonable rules [ ] It is OK for the dominant to loose his temper [x] Swearing and filthy talk [ ] Military/jail type commands [ ] Strict training [x] Obvious and explicit role play [x] Subtle role play [x] I like to be persuaded, rather than commanded [ ] Make me feel guilty [ ] Make me feel cheap [ ] Make me feel used [ ] Make me feel owned [ ] Make me feel useless [ ] Objectify me [x] The dominant must have compassion [ ] The dominant must have no compassion at all [ ] The dominant must only have compassion after the scene Others, please specify: ___________________________________ Sex and sexuality [ ] I need to be sexually aroused when in scene [ ] I need to be sexually aroused before I enter into a scene [x] I like as many orgasms as I can get [ ] An orgasm turns me off [ ] An orgasm must only be allowed as a reward [x] An orgasm is a must to end the scene [ ] Orgasms are not important, but nice [ ] Orgasms are not important at all [x] I want to beg for an orgasm first [x] I want my sexual abilities to be stretched [x] I want/need sex during a scene [ ] I want no sex during a scene [x] Sex should be used to relieve the tension Others, please specify: ___________________________________ I love the following attributes [x] Ropes [x] Leather cuffs and belts [ ] Steel cuffs and chains [ ] Ball and chain [x] Blindfold [x] Gags [ ] Masks [x] Nipple clamps and clothespins [x] Whips [x] Riding crops [ ] Canes [x] Silk to be tied with [x] Sex toys (vibrators, butt plugs) [ ] Needles and pins [ ] Cross, rack [ ] Bondage table [x] Cage [x] Sling [ ] Body bag Others, please specify: ___________________________________ The following scenes appeal to me: [x] Being tied up, caressed and loved [x] Being in a public place and dominated in a subtle way [x] Being taken out with collar and leash [ ] Being locked up and left alone [x] Being tied up in a comfortable position [ ] Being tied up in discomfort [x] Being tied up and (in a sexual way) exposed [x] Being tied up and tickled [x] Being tied up and (sexually) teased [x] Being tied up and whipped, flogged or caned [x] Not being tied up, but verbally commanded into certain positions and having to maintain these [x] Caned, flogged or whipped without being tied or cuffed [x] Being spanked in the traditional way [x] Rough sex/being "raped" [x] Used as a servant [x] Being tied and tortured [x] Being tortured without being tied or cuffed [x] Being used by more than one dominant [x] Playing in combination with other couples Others, please specify: ___________________________________ Safe words and signals [x] The dominant should establish one or more safe words [ ] When I cry, the scene should stop [x] I should be able to communicate in plain language [ ] The dominant should be able to read my body language [ ] I want to be tested when I use a safe word or signal [x] All activity should stop immediately when I use a safe word or signal [ ] I do not want to use any safe word at all and my signals should be ignored completely [ ] When I use a safe word or signal the dominant should establish if the scene can continue [ ] A scene should go on up to the point where I use a safe word or signal [ ] The use of safe words and signals should be avoided as much as possible Others, please specify: ___________________________________ To me erotic power exchange is: [ ] Something I like incidentally, just as a kick [ ] Something I like, but not too often [ ] Something I want as much as possible [ ] A lifestyle that I consider important and want to practice as much as possible [ ] A lifestyle that should be present at all times [ ] My way of life [ ] The most important thing I can think of [ ] Something I want exercised at all times and no matter what the consequences are. 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We have this here in TX...and we also have cowboys... http://www.medievaltimes.com/theshow.htm |
filling out checklist
I hate to admit it but I missed the boat. How do you fill out the check list, all I could think of was to paste it here and fill it out, but doesnt look like thats how it supposed to be done.
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copy it and paste it into the reply box and then X your choices
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Or you could just scream "yes" or "no" when Lilith starts doing something. Not that she'll listen. :p |
Some of the things I've ticked in the "attributes" section are things I would certainly love to try, rather than things I know I love.
Are there any specific types of people that turn you on? [ ] Soldiers, marines, paratroopers [ ] Sailors, coast guard, merchant marine [ ] Airmen, pilots [ ] Policemen, security people [ ] Truck drivers [ ] Firemen [ ] Executioners [ ] Nurses, doctors [ ] Prostitutes, tramps [ ] Hunters [ ] Wrestlers [ ] Surfers, life guards [ ] Motorcycle people, Hells Angels [ ] Cowboys, farm boys [ ] Gentlemen, nobility [ ] Business people, yuppies, managers [ ] Servants [ ] Teachers [ ] Daddy, uncle X Others, please specify: Superheroes ;) Which of the following scenes would turn you on? [X ] Having a romantic dinner by candlelight [X ] I am spanked because I have been a naughty girl [ ] I am in the woods and suddenly this man comes from behind and grabs me [X ] A stranger walks into my bedroom and finds me playing with myself [X ] My partner and I are making love in a public place [X ] I am are sold on a slave market [ ] I am used as a slave in public [ ] I am used as a slave in private [X ] I am ordered to please others [ ] I am a little schoolgirl [X ] I am sitting/kneeling at my Master's feet [X ] I am are tied and teased [ ] I am grabbed by the hair and dragged into the bedroom [ ] I am used as a dog, pony or pet [ ] I am verbally humiliated [X ] I am tied, gagged and blindfolded and left alone [ ] I am tied, gagged, blindfolded and thoroughly whipped [ ] My physical limits are tested and stretched [X ] My mental limits are tested and stretched [ ] I have to sign a contract [ ] I am a total slave every day of the week Others, please specify: ___________________________________ Is there any particular clothing or fabric that turns you on? [X ] Leather [ ] Rubber, latex [X ] Patent leather, PVC [X ] Sexy lingerie [ ] Uniforms [ ] Denim [X ] High Heels [X ] Boots [ ] Wet suits [ ] Servants uniform [X ] Masks Others, please specify: ___________________________________ Do any of the following environments or scenery turn you on? [X ] Your bedroom [X ] A dungeon, castle [X ] Churches and abbeys [ ] Farms and stables [ ] Barracks [ ] Abandoned construction sites [ ] Back alleys [ ] The red light district [ ] A school or a classroom [ ] BDSM-clubs [ ] Estates [ ] Junkyards and car dumps [X ] Woods and forests [X ] Medieval scenery [ ] Nudist beaches [ ] Parking spaces [ ] Truck stops [ ] The bath room [ ] Hospital, dentist [X ] Interrogation room [X ] The shrink's couch [ ] Boot camp [ ] Jail, police station Others, please specify: ___________________________________ I enjoy the following psychodrama(s): [X ] The dominant talks, the submissive is silent or speaks only when spoken to [X ] Dialogue in normal language [X ] Dialogue in adapted language ("Master" and "slave") [X ] Obey rules or else [ ] Reasonable rules [ ] Unreasonable rules [ ] It is OK for the dominant to loose his temper [X ] Swearing and filthy talk [ ] Military/jail type commands [X ] Strict training [ ] Obvious and explicit role play [X ] Subtle role play [ ] I like to be persuaded, rather than commanded [ ] Make me feel guilty [ ] Make me feel cheap [ ] Make me feel used [X ] Make me feel owned [ ] Make me feel useless [ ] Objectify me [ ] The dominant must have compassion [ ] The dominant must have no compassion at all [ ] The dominant must only have compassion after the scene Others, please specify: ___________________________________ Sex and sexuality [X ] I need to be sexually aroused when in scene [ ] I need to be sexually aroused before I enter into a scene [ ] I like as many orgasms as I can get [ ] An orgasm turns me off [ ] An orgasm must only be allowed as a reward [ ] An orgasm is a must to end the scene [X ] Orgasms are not important, but nice [ ] Orgasms are not important at all [ ] I want to beg for an orgasm first [X ] I want my sexual abilities to be stretched [X ] I want sex during a scene - But don't always get ;) [ ] I want no sex during a scene [ ] Sex should be used to relieve the tension Others, please specify: ___________________________________ I love the following attributes [X ] Ropes [X ] Leather cuffs and belts [ ] Steel cuffs and chains [ ] Ball and chain [X ] Blindfold [X ] Gags [X ] Masks [X ] Nipple clamps and clothespins [X ] Whips [ ] Riding crops [ ] Canes [XXX ] Silk to be tied with [X ] Sex toys (vibrators, butt plugs) [ ] Needles and pins [ ] Cross, rack [ ] Bondage table [X ] Cage [ ] Sling [ ] Body bag Others, please specify: ___________________________________ The following scenes appeal to me: [X ] Being tied up, caressed and loved [ ] Being in a public place and dominated in a subtle way [X ] Being taken out with collar and leash [X ] Being locked up and left alone [X ] Being tied up in a comfortable position [ ] Being tied up in discomfort [X ] Being tied up and (in a sexual way) exposed [ ] Being tied up and tickled [X ] Being tied up and (sexually) teased [X ] Being tied up and whipped, flogged or caned [X ] Not being tied up, but verbally commanded into certain positions and having to maintain these [ ] Caned, flogged or whipped without being tied or cuffed [X ] Being spanked in the traditional way [ ] Rough sex/being "raped" [X ] Used as a servant [ ] Being tied and tortured [ ] Being tortured without being tied or cuffed [X ] Being used by more than one dominant [ ] Playing in combination with other couples Others, please specify: ___________________________________ Safe words and signals [X ] The dominant should establish one or more safe words [ ] When I cry, the scene should stop [X ] I should be able to communicate in plain language [X ] The dominant should be able to read my body language [ ] I want to be tested when I use a safe word or signal [ ] All activity should stop immediately when I use a safe word or signal [ ] I do not want to use any safe word at all and my signals should be ignored completely [ ] When I use a safe word or signal the dominant should establish if the scene can continue [ ] A scene should go on up to the point where I use a safe word or signal [ ] The use of safe words and signals should be avoided as much as possible Others, please specify: ___________________________________ To me erotic power exchange is: [ ] Something I like incidentally, just as a kick [X ] Something I like, but not too often [ ] Something I want as much as possible [ ] A lifestyle that I consider important and want to practice as much as possible [ ] A lifestyle that should be present at all times [ ] My way of life [ ] The most important thing I can think of [ ] Something I want exercised at all times and no matter what the consequences are. Others, please specify: Something I hope to explore more of... Being a switch makes it interesting too. :D |
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Just so you don't forget... Aquaman is a Superhero. ;) :D |
Are there any specific types of people that turn you on?
[ ] Soldiers, marines, paratroopers [ ] Sailors, coast guard, merchant marine [ ] Airmen, pilots [ ] Policemen, security people [ ] Truck drivers [ ] Firemen [ ] Executioners [ xx] Nurses, doctors [ ] Prostitutes, tramps [ ] Hunters [ ] Wrestlers [ ] Surfers, life guards [ ] Motorcycle people, Hells Angels [ ] Cowboys, farm boys [ ] Gentlemen, nobility [ ] Business people, yuppies, managers [ ] Servants [ ] Teachers [ ] Daddy, uncle Others, please specify: ___________________________________ Which of the following scenes would turn you on? [ ] Having a romantic dinner by candlelight [ ] I am spanked because I have been a naughty girl [ ] I am in the woods and suddenly this man comes from behind and grabs me [ x] A stranger walks into my bedroom and finds me playing with myself [ ] My partner and I are making love in a public place [ ] I am are sold on a slave market [ ] I am used as a slave in public [ ] I am used as a slave in private [ ] I am ordered to please others [ ] I am a little schoolgirl [ ] I am sitting/kneeling at my Master's feet [ x] I am are tied and teased [ ] I am grabbed by the hair and dragged into the bedroom [ ] I am used as a dog, pony or pet [ ] I am verbally humiliated [ x] I am tied, gagged and blindfolded and left alone [ ] I am tied, gagged, blindfolded and thoroughly whipped [ ] My physical limits are tested and stretched [ ] My mental limits are tested and stretched [ ] I have to sign a contract [ ] I am a total slave every day of the week Others, please specify: ___________________________________ Is there any particular clothing or fabric that turns you on? [ ] Leather [ ] Rubber, latex [ ] Patent leather, PVC [ x] Sexy lingerie [ ] Uniforms [ ] Denim [ ] High Heels [ ] Boots [ ] Wet suits [ ] Servants uniform [ ] Masks Others, please specify: ___________________________________ Do any of the following environments or scenery turn you on? [ x] Your bedroom [ x] A dungeon, castle [ ] Churches and abbeys [ ] Farms and stables [ ] Barracks [ ] Abandoned construction sites [ ] Back alleys [ ] The red light district [ ] A school or a classroom [ ] BDSM-clubs [ ] Estates [ ] Junkyards and car dumps [x ] Woods and forests [ ] Medieval scenery [ ] Nudist beaches [ ] Parking spaces [ ] Truck stops [ ] The bath room [ ] Hospital, dentist [ ] Interrogation room [ ] The shrink's couch [ ] Boot camp [ ] Jail, police station Others, please specify: ___________________________________ I enjoy the following psychodrama(s): [ ] The dominant talks, the submissive is silent or speaks only when spoken to [ ] Dialogue in normal language [ ] Dialogue in adapted language ("Master" and "slave") [ ] Obey rules or else [ ] Reasonable rules [ ] Unreasonable rules [ ] It is OK for the dominant to loose his temper [ ] Swearing and filthy talk [ ] Military/jail type commands [ ] Strict training [ x] Obvious and explicit role play [ ] Subtle role play [ ] I like to be persuaded, rather than commanded [ ] Make me feel guilty [ ] Make me feel cheap [x ] Make me feel used [ ] Make me feel owned [ ] Make me feel useless [ ] Objectify me [ xx] The dominant must have compassion [ ] The dominant must have no compassion at all [ ] The dominant must only have compassion after the scene Others, please specify: ___________________________________ Sex and sexuality [ ] I need to be sexually aroused when in scene [ ] I need to be sexually aroused before I enter into a scene x] I like as many orgasms as I can get [ ] An orgasm turns me off [ x] An orgasm must only be allowed as a reward [ ] An orgasm is a must to end the scene [ ] Orgasms are not important, but nice [ ] Orgasms are not important at all [ x] I want to beg for an orgasm first [ xx] I want my sexual abilities to be stretched [ x] I want/need sex during a scene [ ] I want no sex during a scene [ ] Sex should be used to relieve the tension Others, please specify: ___________________________________ I love the following attributes [ xx] Ropes [x] Leather cuffs and belts [ x] Steel cuffs and chains [ ] Ball and chain [ xx] Blindfold [ ] Gags [ ] Masks [ ] Nipple clamps and clothespins [ ] Whips [ ] Riding crops [ ] Canes [ ] Silk to be tied with [ x] Sex toys (vibrators, butt plugs) [ ] Needles and pins [ ] Cross, rack [ ] Bondage table [ ] Cage [ ] Sling [ ] Body bag Others, please specify: ___________________________________ The following scenes appeal to me: [ x] Being tied up, caressed and loved [ ] Being in a public place and dominated in a subtle way [ ] Being taken out with collar and leash [ ] Being locked up and left alone [ x] Being tied up in a comfortable position [ ] Being tied up in discomfort [ ] Being tied up and (in a sexual way) exposed [ ] Being tied up and tickled [ x] Being tied up and (sexually) teased [ ] Being tied up and whipped, flogged or caned [ ] Not being tied up, but verbally commanded into certain positions and having to maintain these [ ] Caned, flogged or whipped without being tied or cuffed [ ] Being spanked in the traditional way [ ] Rough sex/being "raped" [ ] Used as a servant [ ] Being tied and tortured [ ] Being tortured without being tied or cuffed [ ] Being used by more than one dominant [ ] Playing in combination with other couples Others, please specify: ___________________________________ Safe words and signals [ x] The dominant should establish one or more safe words [ ] When I cry, the scene should stop [ ] I should be able to communicate in plain language [ ] The dominant should be able to read my body language [ ] I want to be tested when I use a safe word or signal [ ] All activity should stop immediately when I use a safe word or signal [ ] I do not want to use any safe word at all and my signals should be ignored completely [ x] When I use a safe word or signal the dominant should establish if the scene can continue [ ] A scene should go on up to the point where I use a safe word or signal [ ] The use of safe words and signals should be avoided as much as possible Others, please specify: ___________________________________ To me erotic power exchange is: [ ] Something I like incidentally, just as a kick [ x] Something I like, but not too often [ ] Something I want as much as possible [ ] A lifestyle that I consider important and want to practice as much as possible [ ] A lifestyle that should be present at all times [ ] My way of life [ ] The most important thing I can think of [ ] Something I want exercised at all times and no matter what the consequences are. Others, please specify: __________________ x |
First ever post, be gentle... :wave:
Are there any specific types of people that turn you on? [ ] Soldiers, marines, paratroopers [ ] Sailors, coast guard, merchant marine [ ] Airmen, pilots [ ] Policemen, security people [ ] Truck drivers [ ] Firemen [ ] Executioners [ ] Nurses, doctors [ ] Prostitutes, tramps [ ] Hunters [ ] Wrestlers [ ] Surfers, life guards [ ] Motorcycle people, Hells Angels [ ] Cowboys, farm boys [ ] Gentlemen, nobility [ ] Business people, yuppies, managers [ ] Servants [ ] Teachers [ ] Daddy, uncle Others, please specify: Therapists/Shrinks Which of the following scenes would turn you on? [X] Having a romantic dinner by candlelight [ ] I am spanked because I have been a naughty girl [ ] I am in the woods and suddenly this man comes from behind and grabs me [ ] A stranger walks into my bedroom and finds me playing with myself [X] My partner and I are making love in a public place [ ] I am are sold on a slave market [ ] I am used as a slave in public [X] I am used as a slave in private [X] I am ordered to please others [ ] I am a little schoolgirl [X] I am sitting/kneeling at my Master's feet [X] I am are tied and teased [ ] I am grabbed by the hair and dragged into the bedroom [ ] I am used as a dog, pony or pet [ ] I am verbally humiliated [X] I am tied, gagged and blindfolded and left alone [ ] I am tied, gagged, blindfolded and thoroughly whipped [ ] My physical limits are tested and stretched [X] My mental limits are tested and stretched [ ] I have to sign a contract [ ] I am a total slave every day of the week Others, please specify: ___________________________________ Is there any particular clothing or fabric that turns you on? [X] Leather [X] Rubber, latex [X] Patent leather, PVC [X] Sexy lingerie [ ] Uniforms [ ] Denim [X] High Heels [X] Boots [ ] Wet suits [ ] Servants uniform [X] Masks Others, please specify: ___________________________________ Do any of the following environments or scenery turn you on? [X] Your bedroom [X] A dungeon, castle [ ] Churches and abbeys [ ] Farms and stables [ ] Barracks [ ] Abandoned construction sites [ ] Back alleys [ ] The red light district [ ] A school or a classroom [X] BDSM-clubs [ ] Estates [ ] Junkyards and car dumps [X] Woods and forests [ ] Medieval scenery [ ] Nudist beaches [ ] Parking spaces [ ] Truck stops [ ] The bath room [ ] Hospital, dentist [X] Interrogation room [X] The shrink's couch [ ] Boot camp [ ] Jail, police station Others, please specify: Trains/Planes I enjoy the following psychodrama(s): [X] The dominant talks, the submissive is silent or speaks only when spoken to [ ] Dialogue in normal language [X] Dialogue in adapted language ("Master" and "slave") [X] Obey rules or else (only if rules have been clearly established) [ ] Reasonable rules [ ] Unreasonable rules [ ] It is OK for the dominant to loose his temper [X] Swearing and filthy talk [ ] Military/jail type commands [X] Strict training [X] Obvious and explicit role play [X] Subtle role play [ ] I like to be persuaded, rather than commanded [ ] Make me feel guilty [ ] Make me feel cheap [ ] Make me feel used [X] Make me feel owned [ ] Make me feel useless [ ] Objectify me [X] The dominant must have compassion [ ] The dominant must have no compassion at all [ ] The dominant must only have compassion after the scene Others, please specify: ___________________________________ Sex and sexuality [X] I need to be sexually aroused when in scene [ ] I need to be sexually aroused before I enter into a scene [ ] I like as many orgasms as I can get [ ] An orgasm turns me off [ ] An orgasm must only be allowed as a reward [ ] An orgasm is a must to end the scene [X] Orgasms are not important, but nice [ ] Orgasms are not important at all [X] I want to beg for an orgasm first [X] I want my sexual abilities to be stretched [ ] I want/need sex during a scene [ ] I want no sex during a scene [ ] Sex should be used to relieve the tension Others, please specify: ___________________________________ I love the following attributes [X] Ropes [X] Leather cuffs and belts [X] Steel cuffs and chains [ ] Ball and chain [X] Blindfold [X] Gags [X] Masks [X] Nipple clamps and clothespins [X] Whips [ ] Riding crops [ ] Canes [X] Silk to be tied with [X] Sex toys (vibrators, butt plugs) [ ] Needles and pins [X] Cross, rack [X] Bondage table [X] Cage [ ] Sling [X] Body bag Others, please specify: ___________________________________ The following scenes appeal to me: [X] Being tied up, caressed and loved [X] Being in a public place and dominated in a subtle way [X] Being taken out with collar and leash [X] Being locked up and left alone [X] Being tied up in a comfortable position [ ] Being tied up in discomfort [X] Being tied up and (in a sexual way) exposed [ ] Being tied up and tickled [X] Being tied up and (sexually) teased [ ] Being tied up and whipped, flogged or caned [X] Not being tied up, but verbally commanded into certain positions and having to maintain these [ ] Caned, flogged or whipped without being tied or cuffed [X] Being spanked in the traditional way [ ] Rough sex/being "raped" [ ] Used as a servant [ ] Being tied and tortured [ ] Being tortured without being tied or cuffed [X] Being used by more than one dominant [ ] Playing in combination with other couples Others, please specify: ___________________________________ Safe words and signals [ ] The dominant should establish one or more safe words [ ] When I cry, the scene should stop [X] I should be able to communicate in plain language [X] The dominant should be able to read my body language [ ] I want to be tested when I use a safe word or signal [ ] All activity should stop immediately when I use a safe word or signal [ ] I do not want to use any safe word at all and my signals should be ignored completely [ ] When I use a safe word or signal the dominant should establish if the scene can continue [ ] A scene should go on up to the point where I use a safe word or signal [ ] The use of safe words and signals should be avoided as much as possible Others, please specify: ___________________________________ To me erotic power exchange is: [ ] Something I like incidentally, just as a kick [X] Something I like, but not too often [ ] Something I want as much as possible [ ] A lifestyle that I consider important and want to practice as much as possible [ ] A lifestyle that should be present at all times [ ] My way of life [ ] The most important thing I can think of [ ] Something I want exercised at all times and no matter what the consequences are. 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After reading that^^^ I'm not sure you really like gentle ;)
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hehe ^^^
Whilst I crossed many items, all of them aren't things I've necessarily experienced 'yet'... |
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