Pretty much a repeat but...
1. Go SLOW...it can be uncomfy initially.
2. Use LOTS of lube..and if it feels uncomfortable later in the game, you need MORE lube.
3. You can prep yourself with a small toy to start out with (again, lots of lube).
4. I found that it is a huge mental game. If you can force yourself to relax mentally and physically, things go a lot smoother.
5. If you are going to try DP with a toy, it's usually easier if the guy enters the rear first before you insert the toy.

it's okay babe....it was funny, you're cute you get away with a lot.

I really really enjoy anal, I have mind blowing loud knees shaking orgasms with his dick in my ass and my fingers on my clit.....it's really an amazing feeling to feel your orgasm swell as you feel his dick getting bigger as he gets closer to the edge and then you both go over at the same time....... >moans just thinking about it<

I am of the sincere belief that successful anal sex consists of 85% attitude and 15% lube. That said, if you think you have enough lube, ADD MORE.
:2cents:

take ur time and let ur self go... use lube and let ur self go. if u want u can clean ur self before, make sure 2 get all th water back out again ;) oh, and let ur self go, just let u fall - fall in th rush of lust and fun.
my girls enjoys it a lot, and so do i - either if each of us is th passiv or active part...! ;)

Thanks everyone for sharing your wisdom with me. I look forward to putting your advice to work!

Hugs

I (for one) look forward to hearing about your success!

I would have offered my own advice (as you know I am passionate about this act of lovemaking), but others had already given advice as I would have. :)

Sorry, I haven't had a chance to figure out how to "quote" just the phrase I wanted in some one elses post yet, lol... (First post, first reply)

Anal sex doesn't always have to mean dick in ass. There are a lot of levels of anal play so just stick with what feels good to you at the moment

It's a true statement. Regardless of your sex or sexual orientation. I have an "anal fixation" like your future/present lover does, or atleast from your description, it seems.

Let's begin from the beginning shall we? A few years ago my then girlfriend and I discussed relationship 'breakers'... Well, I'd had a few drinks and spouted out the honest truth. That being that if there wasn't going to be any chance of a long term relationship if anal sex wasn't on the 'menu'. To my suprise she took it in stride and started asking questions. I did some internet research and pointed her in that direction. I've always enjoyed giving pleasure to the women I've been involved with, and it still hasn't changed. It's of real importance to me. So, first, she needed to know that I wasn't going to hurt her. Second, that I wanted to make it a pleasurable experience. And third, and most difficult of all for most hetrosexual men, I was willing to experience the same from her. "All's fair in love and war" right?

So after impressing my need for anal play I left the ball in her court as far as discussion went. But slowly, ever so slowy, lol, I began to stimulate her other nether region during forplay, as well as during sex. Then one night we had just made love and I decided to make us a couple drinks and when I grabbed some ice I popped a cube in my mouth....

***Sorry gotta go, will return later to finish, seriously!!!****

Welcome to Pixies! I shall sit and wait for the next installment to see what happened with the ice cube :D

Yikes! What a place to stop Steve-O. Hurry back...

Being one that enjoys anal play, I've found a method that works for solo play. Should you get to the point where you feel you want to prep for cock to anal penetration but want some pre-game practice on the field; I'd suggest buying a dildo of size that doesn't scare you, with a suction cup base.

You can stick the base to a surface, such as a foot board of the bed or for me a bureau, these allows for feeties to slip under the furniture and permits you the ability to doggie-style yourself at a pace and depth of comfort and desire.

One of my favorite ways to masturbate ~ give it a go if you wish. Enjoy!

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You should take lots of pics and share them on here,,,then we can tell u if your doing anything wrong, and make suggestions.

Hiya Steve-O!! Welcome to peeps!!!!!!!
Just write whatever you want between the words "quote - - - - /quote" There will be square bracket around each [open] and [/close].
I had a gf and a bf who liked to put an ice cube in me. I felt the chill, but we warmed it up pretty soon! :buttsex: