Funny thing...you were the very person I had in mind Lilith:p :p . Just name the place...:D

all this is sooooooo familiar and must therefore be quite common,

its all about being satisfied by what satisfies us and then doing it somehow together.

How about a glass of something bubbly to relax with, a sensual massage, with lots of teasing then let her stimulate herself. If you get behind her like two spoons or in any positon where you can penetrate when she is ready and simply talk, kiss her caress her or let her see you play with yourself and finally penetrate her as she is reaching orgasm (hopefully this wont put her off her stride and with a bit of luck you could come together)

failing that - if you love her and she loves you and you both come together by some means then you are luckier than most - good luck :D :D

Now, that's what I call a recipe for pleasure. ICT, Thou are a Godess!

Mikus.........
 

Just adding my two cents to the topic....For what it's worth I think badlydrawnboy has touched on an idea that might be of some help here.

And to elaborate further......not only can depression be a culprit but diagnosed depression and the medication used to treat it can cause sexual side effects as well. For that matter any prescribed medication may have sexual side effects! A chemical imbalance......whether it be non-diagnosed, diagnosed and treated with meds (maybe under or over the proper strength), or the taking of a drug to get high (too often or too much at once), whichever the case....can cause a problem sexually.

Now I am not saying that this is the case as I am not a medical professional. And I am not judging or accusing or assuming.........but these are all things that are common knowledge and should be investigated if the thought hasn't occurred to you and you have tried everything else to no avail! A doctor may be a great resort!

As I said...for what it's worth!

Mrs. Lix

GGG
 

There are a number of very good sites on the PCG muscle and things like Keigel exercises. Just a thought that maybe her muscle tone is poor and the clenching of the PCG muscles are what trigger an orgagsm.

Another thing you might try... I've been on the LIT board for a few months now and I posted a technique that I think has helped a lot of people achieve a GSpot orgasm even when clitoral orgasms are next to impossible. Lilith has copied some of my posts into THE TECHNIQUE here on the General Sex Talk board so maybe try that and see if you can stimulate her Gspot to orgasm.

I agree with the other posts ...orgasms are NOT the only thing when it comes to maing love but thay sure are the iciing on the cake. It becomes a REAL problem when one or both of you WANTS to orgasm and there is a problem achieving that. The GSpot orgasm just may be your answer. Let us know if it works. Good luck.