some times we get scared we won't live up to others expectations........ so we chicken out. I know for our first meeting Marlboro was worried I wouldn't show up and I was worried he'd take one look at me and turn around and walk back in the house.... after a 5-6 hour drive I would have been devastated.

I was already in love with the first Pixie I met; I think we were at his place 5 minutes before clothes were dropped on floors. We'd waited so long, we weren't about to wait any longer. :) I imagine it depends on the relationship you've managed to build in the meantime, and if the attraction (both in the fact of it, and the level thereof) is mutual.

a li'l bit o' sqeezin', a li'l bit o' pleasin', some strokin' 'n' pokin' 'n' rolling all about. . . we get the juices flowing and we're go go goin'

til we come!

pillow talk is fun :angel:

i met my hubby on line..he met me and whispered to me if i wasn't married he would marry me in new york second. thngs came around i became divorced and lo and behold we are married and still going at it..

yep the man is my soulmate :cheerlead

well I've met cyber buddies a couple of times, one we went off on a picnic to visit, lots of kissing and touching but kept our clothes on until we got back to the room and then it was nonstop for most of the night, a short break and back after it. Now days we usually get right to bed. Another we met at breakfast, visited and then hit the sheets. The couple I joined met for drinks first, so I guess the only time it was right to bed was when I met a lady who agreed to sponsor my admission to the local swing club

What did we do again?

I believe within moments I was in your arms ;)

would be nice to talk first but who can wait
straight to bed it sounds fantastic

garry

I would think it depends on your correspondence before hand. If the two had been talking for several weeks/months and felt comfortable with each other upon meeting...straight to bed sounds like a decent idea. However, if they hadn't been talking that much then I would say dinner, drinks, see what happens. Personally, I'm in no rush. Sex is fun, and quite enjoyable but not necessary. I tend to enjoy just being with the person; with or without sex.

"We have too much clothes on."

I have met 2 wonderful Pixie men in person. The 1st was just a friend and stayed at my house with my family for a week. The 2nd was a two day get together with some one I'd chatted with on line for years.... the 1st day was talking, out to lunch and some hot kissing, touching... The 2nd day was spent in bed and was terrific!!! I'd do it again anytime! :)

:nod:

That was corrected quickly though. :D

With me, it depended on what I was looking for.

7months after leaving my husband of 25 years, I was just looking to hook-up, all I wanted was sex....I guess I needed to know that it wasn't me, and with a purely sexual relationship my heart was safe..............so we headed straight to the bedroom.

I met my new guy online, with him I wanted something more......so I looked for a someone who could carry on an intelligent conversation, we talk, we laugh we really enjoy being together.....and of course the sex is AMAZING !!!!!!

So when dating online I really think it depends on what you're looking for........if you're only looking for sex, that's going to be the expectation. If you're looking for intelligent conversation, you might have to look a little harder and a little longer but it is out there..............

Sorry if I'm running off at the mouth, but you asked.............