I try to, and hope he'll tell me if I don't.

Do you make gifts for others or buy them?

The love letters, I make. The rest is bought.

Are you sensitive to your S/O's feelings?

(I'm seeing a pattern here!)

I am sensitive to *everyone's* feelings...I am a very empathetic person. It gets me into trouble a lot of the time.

Where is "home" to you?

That's a good question. Now it is truly San Diego. The 'rents sold the old homestead and all are now scattered to the four winds.

How long have you lived in the same place?

I've only been in this house/town for 2-1/2 years, Iowa for about 5-1/2. Southern California for 2 before that, then Kentucky for the first 27 years of my life.

Do you prefer to pay bills online or the old-fashioned way?

Online is soooo fast!

Do you prefer cyber sex or the old fashioned way?

No, give me the old-fashioned way any day.

Are you a morning, afternoon, or evening person? Secondly, what time of day were you born?

I truly do my best work at night. I was born at 21:20 and it seemed to set my body clock.

(I've found that's generally true--your birth time correlates to your preferred time of the day.)

Do you spell well?

:D LMFAO :D

If it weren't for spell-check, CP and I could chat.;)

I can spell well - just can't type well....

did you ever win any school trophies?

No. Got a bowling trophy from a mixed doubles league, though. :)

What was your favorite pet ever?

Blue cattle dog great dog good watch dog

would you try out for temptation Island

Not likely.

Would you ever refuse to watch reality TV?

Yep. I never have watched one of these "reality TV shows." For some reason, the idea just doesn't do anything for me. :(

Would you ever leave the weather channel on for hours on end?

Not unless a tornado was approaching...or I was *really* drunk

LOL -- and I haven't been drunk in years

Would you ever hop in the car and go visit a friend on a whim?

Yes, I've done it before.

Would you ever leave the house for a trip while it was still dirty?

Yes. Especially one as important as yours. Don't feel guilty.

Would you ever dream of not coming back -- and staying at your final destination?

LMAO. You've been hanging around me too much...you know me too well.

What do you consider your most important skill?

Skills that earn me money...rather than sex? Hmmm.....My ability to think on my feet.

You?

To be able to handle people.


What do you feel makes you a better person?

My ability to both sympathize and empathize with people.

What do you wish you could do more of?

Make life a lot better.

When do you feel you are at greatest peace?

In his arms...it's where I find the most comfort.

When do you feel most comfortable?

Not currently.

Where do you go to reflect on issues?

Weather permitting, I like to go to the park with a cup of coffee or a glass of soda.

How do you deal with stress?

I either (1) go to the gym, (2) have sex, or (3) hold it in. These are listed in the order that I practice them (frequency wise)

Of course, I'd rather #2 moved to #1

How do you express happiness?

I guess I like to share it with others. Tend to be something of an open book, I guess.

How do you react to the first warm sunny days of spring? (I know, they're not here yet ... I'm just dreaming a bit. :))

I sit outside on my front porch and watch the neighbors' kids play

How do you celebrate a sunny (but still cool) day?

a nice brisk walk

you?

A cup of coffee (Hortons, perhaps?) and a drive about town

How do you celebrate mid-day sex?

Celebrate it? By having a shower with him/her..

Do you like being alone in a crowd?

Yes, if only becaise I love meeting strangers

Do you like to be in a relationship, or single?

I love being in relationship. I love my wife; our kids; our families,; and I love the friendships that we have. Guess I just like people. :)

Do you?

Yes, definitely.

Who takes care of the paperwork in your household?

I do all of it...

What's your biggest extravagance you've ever purchased for yourself?

A Volvo sedan...coulda gone cheaper, but I loved the car.

You?

Probably some beads I bought to toy with. They were not all that expensive but they were very pricey for beads.

How much sleep do you need?

I've proven in the last many months I can get by with only a few hours of sleep a night for several days in a row. However, I have narcolepsy, and I also realize I'm not my best when having little sleep.

When is the next time you will visit with family?