Hand-jobs or head jobs
 

Guys - what do you prefer to receive?

Girls - what do you prefer to give? Does it depend on the relationship or are there some girls out there who just love to suck cock?

I love to receive head - much better than a hand job - after all, I can do that myself!! *S*

Also, is it a turn on to see a guy cum? Do the ladies out there enjoy seeing a lot of cum or doesn't it matter?

Wow, like I even have to think about it...nothing in the world better than a good head job...& there ain't no bad ones...

ummmmmmm I suck:p

I agree with Sharni 100%! Seeing a gguy blowing his load makes me drip! Amount is not at all important. His facial expressions,, how his body tenses and the reaction he has to the pleasure he is receiving is a huge factor!

I have to agree with Sharni and lilth on this one..:) I love to give my man headjobs..

Well I'm obviously in the minority here with the ladies because I have to say that I actually prefer to do hand jobs for a number of reasons:

1. leaves my mouth free to talk dirty.

2. can watch the guy as he cums.

3. I am far more of a tactile person than an oral one.

For me watching a guy cum is about the ultimate turn on, for all of the reasons the ladies have already mentioned.

I would add though that for me, the distance I can get a guy to shoot it is more of a turn on than the amount of cum there is (after all, the distance it travels is reliant on the strength of the muscular contractons he has i.e. how powerful his orgasm is.) Although if I'm going to get covered in it, it's great to get covered in a LOT of it!

hubba hubba *LOL*

Slurp, suck, lick. I love the way a cock feels in my mouth, can't get enough. So it's head-jobs for me too :D

And watching or even listening to a guy cum turns me on loads (just like all the other girls here) ;)

Absolutely love oral sex, so guess I'd have to pick that. It's very sexy and exciting.

But hand jobs are nice also and can be fun. Love to watch my wife's expressions when it happens to me.

I love receiving both naturally, but my strongest extended orgasms have always been from a talented prolonged handjob.
Additionally, I love watching a feminine set of fingers touching me in the forbidden zone, so to speak. I guess I have a minor hand fetish, so my first vote goes for handjobs!

It depends on the person doing the giving&the situation!I still have a fond remembrance of hand-jobs from when I was single
and thats all we could do without being seen or worrying about
pregnancy.I have also been with some women that you could tell
didn't enjoy,giving head&I am the type of person that doesn't
really enjoy oneself unless my partner is also.Many people don't
realise that receiving a handjob can be a very erotic experience.
When I was dating,giving head was something that NICE girls
didn't do.That's how much times have changed! Irish

Heck at this stage of the Game...............I'll take anything I can get. :)

I'm even in a *more* of a minority here than the rest.

My answer to this question is, "It depends". I love watching my partner cum from any means possible. I can *see* better if I'm giving a hand job, but I can get a better feel if I'm giving a blow job.

The amount of cum doesn't matter one bit. As has been mentioned, the *distance* it travels is more of an indication of how strong the orgasm was. The only thing is that if I'm giving the guy head and he cums a lot, it might make things difficult for me not to choke on it. I don't want to spit it out and if I swallow right then I'll hurt him. What I do in such a situation is let some drip out until I can swallow it.

I prefere head over hand but I'll take ether one.:p

I like giving both, but I have to admit I like giving head. I love bring him to the edge and watch his face as I back off. A bit naughty of me, but the more I can prolong his cum, the better I like it. Come to think of it, I think hubby loves it too.

YEah he does!
 

LOl, she's right I love it!

I really enjoy giving both, but would have to say I prefer to give a good old hand job most of all. There is something very hot about seeing how far he can shoot it...and it is easiest this way to watch his reactions as I'm doing it, which is such a turn on for me, like many of my fellow women also enjoy!

Hands with my balls being sucked - makes me nearly pass out and spurt over my head. My SO can come when she makes this happen.

I love to do both hand job and blow job. I like to play with a guy's cock with my hand until he's begging me to suck him off. I love watching the way him change when he got more and more aroused, especially, when he about to shoot his load....it's so exciting!!!

I have to agree with AK...I love the visual and sensual connection when I receiving a hand job.

at this point would take either......but leading towards a hand-job:D

I think that the personal preferance of males in this question,
have alot to do with ones age.When I was dating,handjobs,were
given by someone who cared about you,etc.Head was only given
by THOSE girls!Even in early marriage(at least in my case),putting
anothers genitals in ones mouth,had DIRTY connetations.My wife
had very high morals,and thought that I would think less of her if
she did that.Times have changed and many years ago,I had to
have a very indepth conversation with her to convince her that I
wouldn't think less(probably more)of her.I know that younger
people won't understand this,but I think that the older members
will. Irish
P.S.My $.02.

I agree totally with ya brunettesgirl.....a little teasing can go a lonnnnng ways....
to watch them cum always seems to get me excited...and then hang on the ride is just being......

Personally, I am NOT going to turn down either offer my bride makes!
If my bride is feeling mischievious though, her oral minstrations can drive me up a wall!

Awwwwww....do I have to choose? I like both, whatever she wants to bless me with is great. Both have wonderful benefits and it's getting me horny just talking about it, Excuse me!

Attitude
 

I think my preference lies with the attitude of the giver. Eager attention makes the difference. If someone is not into giving either a handjob or a headjob, it shows.

I'd rather have an eager handjob than a reluctant headjob, or vice versa. In the end, half the fun is gettin' there.

Bottom line... do whatcha like!

It all depends on the mood I'm in at the time. There are times where I love giving head but sometimes its better giving a hand job as you can talk dirty and watch their reactions more acutely.

If she likes to suck then sucking goooood, yaaa, goooood. If she has reservations then it's baaaaaaad, yaaaa, baaaad. Whatever she does she's got to enjoy it or it's not fun for me.

My wife just gave me a hand job last week - first time she had ever done that. I tried to warn her she was in the firing line but she didn't understand. Nailed her. She was amazed at the squirt factor. Soaked her face and chest. We had fun :)

They each have there time and place and sometimes the soft hands are best, but sometimes you just need a wet hot mouth engulfing you

Head jobs most defiantely. :D Nothing makes me wetter then my hunny bunny blowing his load in my hot lil mouth.

~babybunny~

Just to echo the sentiments of some of the other posts here, there is definitely a time and a place for both. It depends upon the mood of the giver and the receiver I think.

Lucky for my, my honey usually mixes both when I am on the receiving end, so I get the best of both worlds!!

I love giving hand-jobs, but that dosen't mean I don't go down!!!

Looks like hand jobs are winning *S*

i love hand job. i love to kiss her while she is doing that and sometimes, i finger her at the sametime as well...