For the long-term relationship Pixies...Just can't get enough?
 

I'm interested in knowing (for those of you in long-term relationships) how often you have sex with your S/O?

As an addendum to the poll...

* Are you happy with the frequency you have sex with your S/O?
* What would you change about either the frequency or quality of your sexual encounters?
* If you are happy with the amount of sex you get, what's your secret to success?

Thanks all!

I answered 2-3 times a week
* I could have sex everyday...it's responsibilities and time that get in our way.

* I would like to date :D I have fantasies that I'd like to fulfill and some of them involve my husband but some don't.

* Mr. Lil is a great lover...my girlfriends call him the pussy man:D He leaves me lacking and wanting for nothing... that he has the ability to provide me, in the way of pleasure. I was not overly promiscuous in my youth and I think I am just curious and want to explore some avenues that I have not been down.

I answered 2-3 times too. Shift work REALLY gets in the way, sometimes!! :(

DM

I answered 2-3 times a week too.....but had to decide exactly what "sex" meant when I did.....and I decided you meant intercourse...(and I'm feeling a bit like Bill Clinton with that answer :D ). If we were talking a BJ here or a grope and fondle there I would have answered 4-5 times a week....or more!

Mr. Lixy is 8 years younger than me, but I've had no problem keeping up with him and/or initiating throughout our entire relationship.....which has lasted 15+ years. The secret to our success has to be that I weeded through the shitheads till I found what I wanted and he waited for me! LOL! I really don't know.....I'm thinking maybe we're just lucky!

I'm very happy with our sex life and I don't think I can change a thing because.....if it ain't broke, I shouldn't try and fix it!

I answered 2-3 times a week too.

I also could make love every day, but life and busyness and a difference in needs, only allow us 2-3. I happily make up with some solo fun time.... when my s/o is not available or in the mood, with her blessing... that is where cyber can be fun too.

Nice interesting thread... will enjoy reading all the replies

sorry can't answer this

Isn't two or three times a week the national average in Canada and the US?

If 2-3 times per week is the average, I'd like to know some average men. Everyobe I know isn't getting enough...me included.

:(

your telling me!

4 - 5 times.... its ok
we do lot of experiements too

Sometimes more sometimes less - sometimes I'm working too hard and tired sometimes she is - noone gets uptight - it seems the same for all of us.

I like this question and I think it's quality not regularity.

We have sex for about ten hours a week - is this an interesting alternative way at looking at it?

Why, yes...that is an alternative way to look at it. I know couples who have sex 3x/week and probably only get 30 minutes in. Hmmm...

I thought about this some more and as I don't want to be misleading, I would say between five and ten hours a week.

Two hours (basically the morning/afternoon/evening) for the full menu and even up to an hour for Clintons.

I answered 2-3 times/week - but like Lixy, if you count the grope here, fondle there, necking somewhere else then it is lots more

Could have intercourse or oral sex more often, but like many others, time, pressures, etc seem to get in the way.

i also put 2-3 times a week....not my S/O yet...but def. my very committed bf who I live w/....w/ jobs and classes, we get to be super busy, but holding off for a little while definitely makes the orgasms etc. more intense!

I voted 4-5 times a week. We seem to be lucky to have the same sort of schedules and always go to bed at the same time. I think we manage so many "sessions" because we have alot of quickies. When we get home from work we might do it real quick and then save a more "lasting" session for later that night.

I feel lucky!!!

If I had my way it would be 2-3 times a day! unfortunately our lifestyles don't present the opportunity!

2-3 times a week with my hubby. Now by myself I log a bit more as does he. ;)


* Are you happy with the frequency you have sex with your S/O?
Yes. But quite frequently if he doesn't catch my libido by ten pm I am usually too tired and it ain't happening till the next day.

* What would you change about either the frequency or quality of your sexual encounters?
There are things that I want that he just can't give me, but I wouldn't change my current situation.

* If you are happy with the amount of sex you get, what's your secret to success?
Making sure he catches me before my body starts to wind down. And making sure that he knows when I am feeling randy. He's usually up for a few rounds of mattress pounding, but I am not always so eager, so I make sure that he knows that I want it.

I posted 4-5 times a week..when my hubby's home, we have a pretty healthy sex life...we've been married almost 11 yrs..and we're pretty entuned to each other's needs..he pretty much can tell when I want it and vice versa

* Are you happy with the frequency you have sex with your S/O?
when he's home..(he's away right now, not by choice)..but when he's home..YES, I am

* What would you change about either the frequency or quality of your sexual encounters?
I honestly don't think I would change anything..he's VERY entuned to my needs..and he knows just what I like and want..and sometimes surprises me w/something different..the only I would change..is for him to come home! :-)

* If you are happy with the amount of sex you get, what's your secret to success? ALOT of cuddling and foreplay..I LOVE to cuddle, kiss, grope and play...and when you're all worked up, the sex is so awesome!!!!!!

I think Fussy and I go in peaks and troughs, but we've done it three times since Friday!

Usually though maybe 2-3 times a week, maybe less.....it just depends on how much time we have alone together, and how much other stuff gets in the way.

2-3 times/week...since I work 4 on/ 4 off half my week is spent either sleeping or working or spending family time...though we occasionally manage to sneak a quick one in ;)

* Are you happy with the frequency you have sex with your S/O?
Most of the time!
* What would you change about either the frequency or quality of your sexual encounters?
nothing I can think of at the moment
* If you are happy with the amount of sex you get, what's your secret to success?
that's an easy one...I've never known my husband to turn down sex...ever...so I get it whenever I'm in the mood...and 99% of the time when he's in the mood, too ;)

I know it's not the same, but masturbation can be a good cure for that ;)

Personally, I get more satisfaction alone! :p

I put 2/3.....but really, it varries by week. I think that's a fair guess at an average. No new excuses, it's all of a question of how busy he and I are in a given week...or if he's in town at all ;)

Am I happy with the frequency? More would be better....especially as it presumes less stress/overtime.

Wouldn't change a thing about the quality of our sexual encounters in term of quality....purrrr.

And the secret? The same one that kept us together for the last 7 years....openness and honesty. Easier to make sure I get what I want if I can just tell him what/when it is ;).

well prolly on the lower end of thise stick but 6 yrs was a long time to me =/ anyways.. we did have sex almost daily but not quite.. so i put 4/5

It varies quite a bit, but I'd guess weekly (or a bit more) for an overall average. Getting older, we probably aren't the bunnies we used to be, but we spend probably more time cuddling and simply enjoying each others company. I'm not counting those times although they're very rewarding and intimate. :)

(Doesn't count masturbation.)

I want to move to usa you seem to have all the fun. Married 16 years never had it 2 - 3 times a week. Maybe thats why I had an afair??????????