Profiles, bay-bee! Fill 'em out, PLEASE!
 

So I get these kind notes here and there from folks, or take a shine to something someone says in a thread, and I get a notion to look this person up and see what I can learn about them. Imagine my disappointment to see a blank profile. Boo. Hoo.

Now, I understand a person's desire for discretion in a place such as this, but for the love of all that's good and unholy, is gender and birthdate (not day, date) too much to ask?

I'd like to know if you're a he, a she, or some combo thereof. And I try to avoid robbing the cradle too much, but I haven't been entirely successful. Hell, I'd even be thrilled with a polite "woman of a certain age" or "distinguished gentleman."

As for the rest, it's nice to know if someone's in your neck of the woods, and what they like, and what have you, so you might strike up a conversation with him/her.

So I guess I'm asking for folks to reconsider their empty profiles.

Anyone else feel this way, or am I just too frickin' nosy? (The answer could well be both--I fully admit to the latter failing.)

I wonder if they mean to get back to the profile later . . . after viewing the pics . . . after the next wank . . . later . . .

I agree 100%. I hate looking up someone to find out nothing.

I could only give month and day for my birthday. We didn’t have numbers yet when I came into existence. I heard somebody say, “Let there be light!”. ;) LOL



Good point Red.:) I’m not one for filling out one bit of info that isn’t necessary most of the time, and have often canceled doing something when I felt they just wanted too much before I could even get into a site. But I think that after seeing how Pixies is run and what it is about, it would help very much to contribute to a pool that we all do get benefit from.:)

And then it was light...and then that same someone looked at you and moaned, "What have I done"??????

Just trying to fill in the blanks since I don't see Steph online! :D

*runs away...calling back to AZRedHot...I agree about the blankies...but I especially can't stand the "NA" shit in all the spaces!!! If they take the time to type that...why not type something more friendly and informative?*

LMAO :D
I guess part of being a good Pixie is watching out for each other. ;) Steph will be glad to know you filled in for her sleepy ass. ;)

I agree AZ! We don't want to know EVERYTHING about you (Well maybe some of us do ;) ) but it would be especially helpful to at least have a birth year. Some of us who are "of a certain age" would rather not rob the cradle, so to speak. And some nicks are rather ambiguous so at least stating whether you are Male or Female would be most helpful.

I am true to the Pixies oath! Learn it, Live it, Love it! :D :cool:

I did add gender to the profile fields, just recently.

And mock PF wherever possible!

Thanks for the help. The old bugger has been fiesty lately and it's tough keeping up . . . almost! :D

Steph, hun.... are you M or F???:D :D :D

Oh hell, I knew there was something I meant to do the day after I signed up. Can't imagine what around here kept me so distracted for so long ;).

Actually, I just never look at the profile pages....never realized that mine might seem, well, hollow. And I'm sure I'm not the only one who just didn't think about it. Still, I predict a blooming of profiles now that they know folks are peeking. After all, what pixie can resist putting on a show for peekers ;).

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when I 1st got on I forgot to fill mine in and one day it hit me that someone may really look at these things..so I did it then. But I agree, I read them to see what a person is like

Ack! Pet peeve! Pet peeve!

AZRedHot:
is gender and birthdate (not day, date) too much to ask?

Lilith:
I did add gender to the profile fields, just recently.

Grrrr...living things have a SEX. Grammatical constructs hava a gender.

You are right. As are we. Isn't it a good day?

Main Entry: 1gen·der
Pronunciation: 'jen-d&r
Function: noun
Etymology: Middle English gendre, from Middle French genre, gendre, from Latin gener-, genus birth, race, kind, gender -- more at KIN
1 a : a subclass within a grammatical class (as noun, pronoun, adjective, or verb) of a language that is partly arbitrary but also partly based on distinguishable characteristics (as shape, social rank, manner of existence, or sex) and that determines agreement with and selection of other words or grammatical forms b : membership of a word or a grammatical form in such a subclass c : an inflectional form showing membership in such a subclass
2 a : SEX <the feminine gender> b : the behavioral, cultural, or psychological traits typically associated with one sex

Yeah...what everybody else said :D

If I put the word sex...people may have misconstrued what I was asking for. I want their gender identity, not their sexual preference or how often they get it. I picked what I considered the better of the choices.

Steph must be out clubbing.

I had mine filled in. Nobody was interested, so I took most of it off. Even had PM off to.

How do you know nobody was interested? Could be that lots of people were looking at your profile. I looked at it a few weeks ago.

Just for the record, I'm female :lust:

Catch 22, I've looked at yours now (you seem to have put it back up) and now I want to know about your making of adult films! See? Interested.

I do adult pictures. Had a few up on here. Had them taken down. I had a contact details on my profile I removed.

She just needs a good clubbing.;)

Me too! Me too! I love a good club...

Like to dance then? I know a few moves myself! :D

Where do you put "BC" along with the birth year? :)

lmao@-----^ :)

Why DB your a war bond!

I have to admit that when I first signed up, I left most things blank. Primarily because I didn't know this place too well yet. Since then, it never even dawned on me to fix it. Funny because I did take the time to change my AV and signature at one point, but still didn't really fill out the profile. I guess I sort of figured that if there was something someone was curious about they would ask... and then I could decide if it was information I cared to share or not. I have gone through some hesitation on sharing certain things on this site, for fear of people I know off the net knowing it is me. But in all actuality if they found me here, they were probably here for some of the same reasons as me so who really cares anyway?

*leaves, to go look at her profile, to see what she can now add*;)

I filled out most of the profile when I signed up, but was pretty vague on the biography.

It's a little better now. ;)

And I must agree, I can be nosy.....ok ok...I'm always nosy. Fill out those profiles!!! :D

I have fiddled with mine since I joined, but not much. They are all truthful answers, even if they are a little vague. :)

I wish you'd "fiddle" with mine a little more.:D




(I just stopped by to check on that -----^ avatar ;) )