Blowjobs...style...
 

Okay...regarding the giving or getting of blowjobs. What style do you prefer. The woman takes the lead and the man just lays back and receives or the man being a little aggresive and fucking (gently) her mouth.

Bit of both really... I like to take the lead at first, but when I've got him really hot and bothered then I like it when he starts to play back (though if I feel like teasing I won't let him do anything but sit really, really still...)

I guess I sort of prefer her to take the lead but to be honest I've only really had one in my life that even got me close to an orgasm. :(

Fussy is like that too Iowaman - I can find it a little disheartening as it makes me think my technique is no good. Unfortunately, it's rather difficult to ask any previous partners how many marks out of ten I'd get. :(

i think its a little bit of both..If we are in 69 honestly i can't concentrate on him at all. argh.. i swallow so would rather get him off and then he laast longer.:) method to my madness

I enjoy both with her taking the lead. Then I want her to climb aboard so I can outlast her over the edge.....

It depends om the women., if she is aggressive I'l lay back and let her go for it. If she is submissive I will fack fuck her. Both ways I want her to swallow the load.

I'm just happy to be getting a blow job. She has said in the past she prefers it when I take charge. Of course this like most things could change with her mood.

WHAT THEY SAID^^^^^^^^^^^^^! :slurp:

BJ practice
 

Not "practicing" but how I practice the art of oral sex.
For men, I prefer semi -public venues, doorways, corner booths in bars, or cars. I squat or kneel as I prefer for the circumstance, such as location or his height vs mine (sigh), and fellate him.
I love to look up and see the strain on his face, and the feel of control it gives me.

Recently I have added a particular "standard" technique, something I usually only did by request. When he starts to cum, I take him as deep as I can and suck, very very hard. I have learned to be better at deep throating recently, and this seems to give men intense pleasure.

(Unless he wants to paint my face or breasts, tastes vary. Was that a pun?)

:bj:

WW

I subscribe to the WW theory, cos it sounds best.

Seriously, there was one woman in my life who was THE headjob queen, the rest dabblers in the fellatial arts.

I'm sure it's a personal thing though, OF. A Queen to you could be dreadful for someone else, no?

As I said before, I have little/no confidence in my own abilities anymore, although I like to think that I used to be good at it once upon a time.

Either/Or is ok with me.

:)

Clearly, there were issues to be dealt with for the other 23+ hours of the day.

Hold your head up, Lou, any man that knows will tell you there's no such thing as a bad BJ...some have a different response level, is all...I myself would like a little more response from my lady when I'm giving oral, but I have no doubt that she is enjoying the experience in her own way.

I might add, depending on the moods of my partner & myself, either one or any combo of the 2 can be hot...

I know a lot of women who say they struggle to relax enough to truly enjoy oral, although personally I don't have that problem :licker: :D

Perhaps the same is true for some men.

I prefer to start of slow and then as the temp rises I also continuesly speed up.
I like my man just to lie back and enjoy with him slowly swaying his hips

To give, I like to decide how it goes. I like it to be my idea, unless we're playing a game.

Sometimes I like to just look at him and slowly lick, running my tongue around, but other times, I like to be more aggressive. I don't like to be 'face fucked'.

Hanging with my head off the end of the bed is good too.

When I'm on the receiving end, I like to kick back and relax, with nothing on my mind but completely enjoying what's happening. Moving and grooving with the experience, physically and emotionally.

Listening is the greater in importance on how and what to do. When I'm giving my BF a bj I like for him to allow me to work past my natural gag reflex. When I've done that, he gets the high sign and from then on he's pretty much free to do what he wants in my mouth. I ask him in advance to go from that point and sometimes clasp hands behind my head and press his cock into my mouth as hard and deep as he can. At the same time, I'm squeezing my arms around his ass and pulling myself onto his dick as hard as I can letting him shove the meat and finally the blast of cum down my throat. My girlfriend can't deepthroat me so I let her do anything she wants. I NEVER press without her asking or telling me to. Dear friends, the throat can be injured.

Oh my it's been so long I have forgotten.... LOL
Nuh on a more serious note though, I usually like to start of slow and and then increase my spead and then just go fast slow fast slow, I know it sound unusual, but it feels alot better than it sounds.
I also noticed that the men I have done this too love it when you flicker your tounge againts the head so I try to throw that in aswell

I like it down and dirty, hard and furious, teasing, porno style. It drives me wild and I so get into it especially when I get that look as she takes me totally in. OMG!!!

I agree there is something kind of sexy about feeling the tingle of a slightly bruised mouth after a session of oral....I think I'm going to have to make that happen fairly soon - Fussy, you've been warned!