What's the longest time....
 

You've gone without having any sex?????? :D ;)

(Virgins need not answer!! :D :p ;) LOL)

The longest i have gone was 2 weeks (i think, im not to sure) , and thats no sex no contact and no taking care of my self. IT SUCKED!!!!!!!!!! :D

Well i think i can say i beat you all i have havnt had sex at all in my life and im 21 will be 22 on the 5th of April i have never even had Oral or been masterbated by another person :(

oh no im sorry iikii....

be alright, :) if i cant smile at it what can i smile at eh? sorry for depressing anyone, but at least i have alot of fantasies to fullfill now :)

hehe you didnt depress anyone dear :D

Actually Iiikiibu you should be very proud of yourself to still be a virgin! :)

How'd you figure that one out then Diva? :) i know why i am though my morals (Won't take advantage of anyone while theyre drunk things like that) and that i could curdle milk by looking at it :)

?? :)

im Ugly as you can get :) But this is not supposed to whats talked about in the thread :)

i bet thats not true tho iikii, but your right this isnt the post to talk about this hehe. why dont you post a pic ? :)

because im too ugly dont have a camera or any other form of method of getting my ugly mug on here :)

your to hard on your self iikii.... Sorry Diva for taking over your thread hehe wont happen again... :D

Yup honest never ever happen again want you to keep those steel toe caps hidden from me promise ill be good :)

well that was a very interesting conversation but now to get back to the topic. I went two years when I was a teenager but since then I think the longest was two weeks after each of my children were born.

OT~ Jay~ you only gave your wife 2 weeks after she gave birth to your kids...DAMN!!!!! She must be one hell of a lady! If you picked her I am sure she is :)

I went 6 weeks after my first child was born (Drs. orders) but other than that 2 weeks I think was the longest........ lately 2 days seems like 2 weeks

lil. I had to talk her into waiting the whole two weeks.

What a man........ now I remember why I hired you;)

well the last time I had sex was February 2000. Marriage problems and I am not cut out to be unfaithful.

I have recently seperated but have not broken the ice yet.

I am a bit shy about it really LOL I have been out of the dating game for a long time.

I like seeing so many couples here at pixies, sharing your sexuality in a place like this can be so exciting.

Well fingers crossed (or ladies should that be legs open LOL) for grumble to be back in action soon :D :D :D :D

The longest time I've gone without having any sex with a partner is about a week. However, in terms of intercourse about a month when my wife gave birth to our kids. I'm also assuming you don't count masturbation.

my longest well, since losing my virginity, has been 3 weeks...... almost killed me.

i haven't had sex since i lost my virginity back in november, shows to go how much of a dork i really am

Radies~ Not a dork.... just being particular about who you share yur goodies with :D

Hmmmm, four long &%&(*^#%@ months. Almost forgot what it felt like!! :(

The longest I went was 2 years. And now I'm working on 2 months.

The longest I've gone without while in a relationship is 4 weeks. (after the birth of my daughter)

Nearly three years. Vaginal penetration is too painful for my wife and she is absolutely set against anal. Doctors can't help her, even with drugs, hormones and KY. I've had other relationships during our marriage that have fulfilled my needs to please and be pleased. However, I met somebody really special in Australia and I can't be unfaithful to her even though we've been separated all this time and probably won't ever get together sexually again. The answer to the other questions you may well be asking are that I have a son who needs his parents to be together right now and I couldn't have sex with my wife in any case because the only bond we now share is our son.

Kiwi15,

Join the club! I have been a member for over 7 years.

I doubt that I am much diferent from most men that have post menopausal wives who have lost ALL libido. My research indicates that this is very common and probably the norm.

I have no desire whatsoever to look elsewhere for what is still necessary, indeed vital, for my continued sanity. Fortunately, my wife is totally understanding of this and has no objection to my activities beside her in bed or in the shower.


Good Luck!

John.

Ugh...sad to say, but I once went 3 years. Mostly because of travel and situations. Of course...that doesn't mean I didn't take care of my own! Nobody loves me like I do! :)

Ophelia

its been three years tht i m not having sex at all ... no oral . Nothing i mean .

nineteen years. but after that, about a year. and as it stands, about three months. even though a good 50% of my thoughts are occupied daily by sex, i seem to be placin' less and less actual importance and priority on it with each progressive day. *shrug* such is life, i guess.

My long dry season?... over 2 yrs, from the conception of our 1st child (she didn't want to risk sex during a complicated pregnancy) until he was over a year & a half old... to quote Erma Bombeck, I lost everything in the post-partum depression...

Almost six months during a tough time in the marriage.

She toughed herself out of the bed.

Well having 2 children aside...which sex was not happening for about 4 weeks...

The longest I have gone is 9 weeks....:( cause he is NEVER in the damn mood!

And now I am going on my third week...Do I see a partten devolopping here??? <Gotta to find me a new man..LOL>> :D ;)

Probably about three months and my friends were getting heartily sick of me and were making encouraging comments about one night stands, taking me out to clubs in sheer desparation etc.

You don't even wanna friggin know!!! LOL! Too damn long, that's all I have to say about that.

Eros

I assume that you're counting masturbation as sex!I think that I
went a day once.Even during my wifes pregnancies and menstrual
cycles;we still mutually masturbated.My wife always wore a tampon and she climaxes clitorily(sp)In other words;a string is no deterrent! Irish
P.S.Sexual contact with another is not enjoyable;to me;unless they climax also.My wife is always good for;at least;three climaxes

Let's see. I lost my virginity 61 months ago. Have not had sex since then. So, just over 5 years.

12 years here! Many reasons...I was informed that I was no longer desirable because I had gained a considerable amount of weight. Then went through menopause and lost my desire as well, so it was no big deal. But am now post-menopausal and suddenly the long lost libido has returned with a vengance. Unfortunately, he still isn't interested. We also operate on opposite schedules which makes it difficult if not impossible.
I'm not very good at keeping secrets, so going outside my marriage is not an option. Although I did my share of sleeping around before I met him, I've never cheated on him and don't intend to start now.But damn, I'm horny as hell!!! :(

Well-my love has been in Hawaii for 12 days and that is the longest for me. But he gets back tonight, so that'll be taken care of!!