Intelligence and self confidence. I am truly a sucker for self-confidence. And no....I don't mean arrogance. Self confidence is being comfortable with what you are...and what you're not.

As for the "other" category -- I like a man who is passionate about something (cars, work, a hobby, philanthropy) and shows it. People without interests and convictions are IMHO boring.

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Life is too short not to love and be loved....preferably multiple times in one night.

I think men talk to women so they can sleep with them and women sleep with men so they can talk to them. ~ Jay McInerney