No guy has ever done that to me, Jax, but I think if ever they did, they'd soon realise that the reward would be worth the effort.

I suggest these two things might help keep you focused even after you've cum:

1) Remember that a woman's orgasm is scientifically proven to be more intense than a man's....meaning that we probably feel even more drained than you do after our orgasms, but we are still expected to continue with sex, give oral or whatever until the guy cums. Given the choice, I know, I would far prefer to cum second, but I also know that in the majority of cases if I don't cum before the guy does, then I don't cum at all, since most guys lose interest, as you describe. My point is that if she's prepared to make the effort, then you must too, on occasions.

2) And this is the biggie.....I think you'd find that after the first time you go down on your woman after penetration, and she nearly hits the ceiling with pleasure, you'll get such a kick out of her reaction that you'll find the energy to continue through the 'wall' that hits you after orgasm. I imagine that once you've experienced that for the first time, the experience will motivate you to try it again next time.

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