Another nuance of the english language that causes confusion and uproar.

refuge - shelter or protection from danger or distress
refugee - one who flees for safety especially to a foreign country

So a person seeking refuge is not a refugee? Or someone who flees for safety but not to a foreign country is not a refugee? Or are they a different type of refugee?

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Though I am different from you,
We were born involved in one another.

For it was not into my ear you whispered, but into my heart. It was not my lips you kissed, but my soul.

Complete surrender should not just come at moments in which one faces overwhelming odds, but in the calm when it seems one is personally in complete control of one's life.