She was totally soothing when she approached and diffused the situation in no time by not challenging the sitter but instead acknowledging that children can be very frustrating and this is what to do when that happens. It was suprising how disarming it was. The sitter was totally ready for a confrontation and ended up being faced with an ally.

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Though I am different from you,
We were born involved in one another.

For it was not into my ear you whispered, but into my heart. It was not my lips you kissed, but my soul.

Complete surrender should not just come at moments in which one faces overwhelming odds, but in the calm when it seems one is personally in complete control of one's life.