I believe you are like most people and enjoy attention of opposite sex. That is all. Yes, you are sending confused messages for a man to understand. You know we are horny animals by nature. If we believe there is interest, we want to automatically fuck you. LOL Even when we would not do it, we want to. :lust: For the basic animal mind of a man, you have to only make clear that your interest is not to sleep with us. Just be honest and tell him you are happy married woman. If he does not know this, he may think you are available and try to win you from a ‘boyfriend’.

As for changing where you shop or how and when you walk to the store, I say BULLSHIT! You should never have to change your life for somebody that is not important in your life. Do not let anybody intimidate where you go or what you do. If necessary, change your walking stick to a baseball bat and go YOUR route.

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