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Old 10-07-2005, 10:57 PM
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Originally Posted by scotzoidman
Can't rule out that some level of social anxiety disorder may be involved, in which case there may be a chemical cure...I'm just shy myself, but wife has a genuine fear of being out among crowds, which she copes with well enough to work but doesn't evereverever leave the house otherwise...


This is very true. It may also be psychological. I spent many years deathly afraid of people, not crowds, but individuals. I would literally make worry so much about what I was doing that I would make myself sick (sometimes to the point of throwing up). It took a long time to realize that I could be ok around people.

But I digress. Teddy Bear is right, it's a slow step by step process. Find something you like and know about and see if there's a group that is also interested in it. You're not looking for a date, just practice speaking to people, and it's always easier when you can speak with some confidence.
Good luck. And hey, Chicago is great, wander downtown, I'm sure you can find something to do.
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