I was on leave (in the Air Force at the time) on my way from one foreign country to another (England to New Mexico). We were introduced by my best friend of all time who didn't want to see me grow old alone (I was 24 at the time). It was at church one Sunday night. She wanted to use me to make her boyfriend jealous. Well - about 3 weeks later right before I had to leave as my "vacation" was up, I popped the question. 25 plus years later I still wonder what would have happened if her plan had worked......