08-19-2002, 05:48 PM
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Pixies Den Mother
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Join Date: Mar 2002
Location: No-Hockey Land, dammit!!
Posts: 11,897
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Thanks for starting this thread, jennaflower! This is a really loaded topic for me. I guess according to today's definition I would be considered a BBW. I don't like being called a BBW. To me, personally, if I call myself a BBW, I'm admitting defeat, that I am overweight and will always be this way. I don't intend to always be this size. I don't like being BBW! I don't think there is anything attractive about it, for ME. I desperately want to NOT be BBW! I don't feel good at this size, nor do I think I look good. Being short only compounds the problem, but there's nothing I can do about my height.
But I must sincerely thank all the open-minded and open-hearted men and women here at Pixies. Because of the acceptance I have found here I know there is no reason I cannot still express my sexuality. My size should have no bearing on my sexual feelings or desires. And there are people out there that would not immediately turn away from me because of my size. I just don't want to be thought of as attractive BECAUSE I'm a BBW. I want to be thought of as attractive or desirable IN SPITE OF being a BBW.
Please get to know the ME that exists inside this body.....that's who I am. You may call me a BBW, but although that may be WHAT I am, it's not WHO I am.
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