((((((((packrat)))))))))

Aqua's right.....not sure if you followed any of my advice before, but if you did, then you've got a head start in building up your own life without her in it.

If not, then now's the time to start doing what I suggested before. I'd advise against the following though:

1) Getting into a rebound relationship

2) Sleeping around just for the sake of it....at best, you'll find it unfulfilling and at worst you'll end up with a disease

3) Excessive eating, drinking, smoking or drug taking

You must now concentrate on healing yourself, not destroying yourself further with any of the above.

Make a clean break.....delete her number from your phone and don't think about contacting her. If she contacts you, tell her not to. It just prolongs the agony.

Enjoy spending time with people who love you, and concentrate on things you may have neglected while you were with her. Focus on your career goals for a while, or give yourself some new challenges which will give you a sense of achievement.

Don't take out your bad feeling toward her on every other woman you know/meet......it will stand you in very poor stead for future relationships if you do.

Finally, love yourself, don't be afraid to ask for help, and accept that it's going to take time before you feel 'normal' again.

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