packrat I think you're absolutely right....there is more than your jealousy involved, but don't assume it's another man....she may just feel as though she's grown out of the relationship....it happens.

As for the car, if you're paying for it on a monthly basis, you need to ask her to take over the payments for it. If you bought it outright and you told her it was a gift, or that she did not need to pay you back for it at any time, then I'm afraid you'll just have to put it down to experience. Yes, it's a bummer that you're out of pocket, but we don't give gifts to people we love with strings attached.

If she has any scruples she may offer to pay you for it or offer it back to you, but from what I've heard of her, she probably won't do that. Comfort yourself that a woman with so little sense of what's the right thing to do, is out of your life now.

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