well it's been some time and after talking to her over the past month....man has it been that long.....i've come to a conclusion. the jealousy was a problem....but not THE problem. i think she was scared. not sure, that type of thing. we may end up back together before long...she said she misses our relationship and our commitment. any advice and comments will be appreciated...


oh yea on the car...she offered to keep paying and then said she would give it back....but we eventually worked out a legal plan that will allow her to keep it and me to get the $$$


just another note to let ya'll in on whats been goin on with me. i've been hanging out with a friend i lost touch with after graduation. been going out with him and his woman and i've gotten closer with them. i do feel better about everything. there are moments when i have a little break down like when i am reminded of my ex-fiance (music, movies, etc...) my ex-fiance and i talked a good bit and we actually spent some time with eachother the other day. no doubt i still love her. but i've been acting cool about it. i do think we will get back together and i want to be. advice on what to do if we get together would be great. and another thing, we have been talkin about goin on a little date to just hang out and kinda start from there and see what happens. on our "first" date i'm plannin to play it cool and show her a good time, but what should i do if sex is brought into the picture? should i go with the flow or no. i'm not talkin about me puttin moves on her. i am talkin about her puttin moves on me....just let me know something