I know what you're saying Jude, but if she's found herself pregnant and has already made the decision that she wants to keep the child, even if it, as you say, because she can't stand the thought of someone else raising her child, sounds like she's already changed her mind.

I have a friend who, despite having been married to her husband for ten years, got pregnant accidentally and had a termination, as she was convinced, even while pregnant, that she did not want the child. I'm sure that if qwerty's fiancee still felt that she didn't want the child, she would not keep it.

I know a hell of a lot more women who regret giving a child up, than ones who regret keeping them, and with a father who is as supportive and responsible as qwerty, I feel, that this child has a good a start in life as any.

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