everyone thinks that lol but i am not just some horny dog....i really care about the girl and i love her. i am thinking though. i'm not going into this blindfolded trust me. the way it is looking is we are gonna go out on a date and it's gonna either make or break the situation. not to sound arrogant but i am a good decent guy. and when we go out and i finally got her face to face to where we can talk i'm gonna get to the bottom of all of this b/s. and then i will make my decision. but to let you know, i know of a girl who is interested in me and she gave me her number. right now i feel if it dont work with me and my ex i am not built up enough to get into any type of relationship. but either way i am gonna be friends with this other girl and if it doesn't work with my ex maybe in the future something may develop between me and the other girl. i dont wanna do a rebound thing cuz thats not being fair to the other girl thats why i haven't tried to make anything of it with her because i still love my ex. when i have made my decision and either makeit/break it i will start the process of emotional "healing" and then in a little while i might be ready for something else. i have been doin a lot of things lately and i do feel better. if me and my ex work something out i will not be a doormat this time around. if signs of the old start showing i will end it myself. the "golden triangle" so to speak is not on my mind as to making stupid decisions. i hope that makes sense