It sounds like honest answers are not what you're looking for so I'll just tell you what you want to hear.

All men want to fuck virgins because we hate following someone else. We will always have the fear that we're not as endowed or talented as our predecessors, so we prefer to fuck naive and inexperienced girls that don't know any better. It also makes us feel more masculine, because as you know...men are hunters and warriors. We hunt and we conquer. When we bag a virgin, it's a conquest. We tell everyone about it like a hunter displays trophies and animal heads on the wall, because others must know how macho we are to have done such a manly thing.

There...does that help?

Just because there are males (I won't call them men) out there that think like this doesn't mean everyone with a penis does. But you can ignore this little bit if it doesn't fit into your obviously set mind.

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Though I am different from you,
We were born involved in one another.

For it was not into my ear you whispered, but into my heart. It was not my lips you kissed, but my soul.

Complete surrender should not just come at moments in which one faces overwhelming odds, but in the calm when it seems one is personally in complete control of one's life.