I like the backrub idea ... the bottoms of my feet (especially the bottoms of my toes) are so sensitive that I don't like people touching them, I get all jittery and jumpy and it's kind of like being way too wired ... not a good thing as far as I'm concerned ... but the back rub, I like that idea a lot .... romantic outings are nice as well, but make sure I've got the energy to do whatever is planned and still enough left over for me to show my appreciation for your planning/outing!