I'm with Lil on this one...getting a mixed message here, you mostly blame yourself but she issued ultimatums...guess that's the Gentleman Cowboy coming out oh well, sorry it didn't work out, but better to move along than to force the issue when the time is wrong...

__________________
Plug me into somethin'

If the theory does not conform to the facts, then the facts must be discarded.

No good deed ever goes unpunished

Never argue with an idiot. He'll drag you down to his level, & beat you with experience.