Can I give my serious answer to this one .... I made a decision about 15+ years ago on what I wanted to be known for in my life .... I want to become the most loving, giving, caring person I can become. It is a life long goal of mine and has brought me to be a person I never thought I could become in a million lifetimes.... I have joy because of it.

thanks dicksbro for the chance to remind myself of what I feel is most important! jjjjbo