wyndhy,

Isn't the mercenary position when you're just in it for the money?


We probably need to understand what is meant by "spice up" before we jump in too deeply.

If it just means her getting dressed up as a Nurse and relieving symptoms, then a lazy trawl through some magazines may give you some ideas.

If it means bringing a third, fourth or bunch into the marital bed, this place is a seething morass of assistance.

If it means one or both going off and doing someone else's thing, then you need to talk out and agree to all the consequences, forseen and unforseen.

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