Mae, your comment intrigues me:

Dirty talk doesn't have to be name calling or aggressive. Would you really find it disrespectful if in the heat of the moment he murmured in your ear:

'Mmmm baby, you've got me soooo hard....I just love your breasts....I can't wait to feel myself inside you'

???

Personally, I think that dirty talk like that conveys a sense of awe and worship which I find far from disrespectful.

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