i wouldn't like it at all if it's mean spirited, as most sane women would not. we talk dirty and have played wth mild name-calling, used sparingly and rarely, which i love when we’re both in a nasty mood.
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do know i don’t wish he’d do it more, or make it more base and raw. i like the balance we have between monkey-sex and making love and that we can seperate them sometimes..
i will, however, totally cop to having a fantasy or two where i'm called all sorts of nasty names. again - not mean spirited - just supremely nasty.
on the other hand, for me, fantasy and reality are separate from each other with regards to sex, and i don't always want my fantasies to come true.