For me, sex is both a recreation and a passion. I can have sex with SOMEBODY pleasant pretty much when ever I feel like it.
But... sometimes I prefer not to, even though a lack of intimate contact for more than a few days makes me VERY irritable.
Different kinds of dry spells...
Male... (no heterosexual contact) was a (for me) long time, over a year.
No WTW, about 2 yrs. (that is, the first dry spell once I discovered I liked other girls)
This was during my marriage. I was faithful to my rat bastard assho...uhh nevermind... anyway, I has sexually active only with him while I was married, and had no men for a while afterwards. (he had failed to show the same respect during our marriage.)
I have had dry spells due to illness, most recently a combination of a broken arm and lack of company that interested me. Twice I was totally celibate for over a month due to pneumonia.
Last night I broke the current nine and one-half day dry spell in a very spectacular way, (and in as may ways as possible) during a visit to a private club in Houston last night.
Hmmm... no icon for "wanding" which provided me with two really amazing orgasms last night, to thunderous applause.
(sigh)
Sexually, (once again)
WW