02-15-2007, 05:02 PM
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pixie of the wood
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Join Date: Apr 2004
Posts: 10,575
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no, iowa, you are not alone...in fact some men train themselves to be able to do that. they can try for years and never master the skill.
a little fyi about it though...for men, orgasm and ejaculation are two separate things that only usually happen together. orgasm is the release of sexual tension, ejaculation is the expulsion of semen. it could be that you are involuntarily flexing your pubococcygeal muscle (that muscle you use to make your cock dance or stop pissing midstream.) BUT it could also be "retrograde ejaculation", which makes the cum flow backward into the bladder (look for cloudy pee after ejaculation). best tell a doc if that's the case.
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