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Originally Posted by Jude30
I'm exactly 6ft and my wife is shorter than you are and we do just fine in the shower. So now I know you're making excuses. Which is fine, if you don't want to have sex it's no skin off of my nose.
But if he's not pestering you about it he's either asexual or getting it someplace else.
You keep talking about possibilities. His son might wake up and catch you. There are worse things in the world than a kid seeing his parents having sex. It's not going to scar him for life. And if your daughter wakes up so fucking what, she's three months old it's not like she knows what's going on.
I hate to break it to you but it doesn't matter where you live sex doesn't have to be in a bed with the lights out. Unless of course one partner is a complete and total prude.
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Allowing a child under the age of 16 to witness a sex act is in fact child abuse (at least in this country) It's exactly the kind of thing that scars one for life, depending on his age and the circumstances.
I think you're somewhat insensitive Jude, to suggest that someone else's relationship (whom I doubt you truly know) is failing.
It is clear from other men's posts here on this thread that most men, do not in fact, think like you and it gets me to wondering whether your comments are just a reflection of your own sexual frustration within your relationship.....I don't know, I'm not there, but you seem to assume that women are out there making excuses not to have sex and that men can't live without it.
Relationships are hard enough, Jude, especially with a tiny baby to tend to, as you should know, so I don't think filling a woman's head with doubts about the strength of her relationship and the fidelity of her partner actually achieves anything other than messing with her head.
I'm always first to give advice to people on their relationships when they've asked for it, but I think before I type, and tread carefully as I'm aware that when I say things, I'm potentially messing with people's REAL lives.
Now, if you don't mind, I've got a PM to send to someone now, to make sure she's OK.