Funny thing, when I first started taking part in that most delicious act, we called it "tower bridge" after the famous bridge in London, two tall towers, conected by a span between them. (just use a little imagination) I even mentioned it by that name in my profile, and received a lot of questions about what it meant.
It has been called "bridging" "connecting", or "connector" "end to end" "the javelin" "the OVP" (oral vaginal penetration) of course the "OAP", the "long 3sum" and so on. I have done it too many times to count. I have done it with 2 men, a couple, and yes, with 2 women.
It is NOT something a woman should do unless she is in full control of her faculties, like being drunk. I have to work to give good oral sex, and to do it while being fucked reuires skill and attention, believe me!
And I don't want to be bent in ways my body doesn't move, so I need to keep aware of where I am and what I am doing.

I have only recently learned the term "spit roast". At first I was just amused, but now I have issues with it.
Frankly, at the risk of sounding like my "bitch feminist" other self, it's demeaning.
Not the act! I LOVE the act, it is a wonderful, intense, exciting experience, and I would not give it up!

It's the term. "Spit Roast" is too suggestive of the idea that I am just a piece of meat.

Anyway, yes, I have done it, I love it, and do it a LOT!

WW

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"I wondered, am I a lesbian, am I straight, or bisexual? Then I realized that I am just a slut.
So where's MY parade?"

---Margaret Cho