1. Thanks for resorting to name calling quite the grown up thing to do.

2. Considering my first post on this thread was the fifth post over all and her first post on this thread wasn't until the 76th post I find it interesting that you think she's the only person I've replied to.

3. When a person posts a piece of personal information on a public message board it becomes anyones business who wants to make it theirs. It's that simple and I've stated it once before in this thread, if you don't want people commenting on your life don't post about your life. And once again for the reading comprehension impaired I'm not judging anyone's relationship only making statements on them based on my opinion and what they have allowed us to know about them.

4. If I had a martyr complex I could argue that I am the one being wronged here since all I have done is say that 13 months would be too long for me to go without sex unless there was a medical reason, and that any couple who wants to have sex can and will find a way. Yet making these two very simple statements somehow makes me a bad person. Not one person has offered a counter argument to these two statements. Only the accusation that I am somehow a jerk or rude.

Good thing I don't have (much of) a martyr complex and just I just think people are entitled to their opinions about me based on what I write here.

5. I have continued to post only because people keep directing posts to me personally. When I see my screen name in a post I tend to reply. There are two ways I'm going to not respond to this thread, one is that someone explains to me how a couple who really truly wants to have sex with each other can't when distance or health aren't issues, or people stop talking directly to me.