Definitely different strokes for different strokes. I know that Jenne at the site Clitical.com calls herself an ethical slut, and I know she takes pride in that. I myself would be highly insulted to be called a slut or a bitch in or out of the bedroom--and I love sex and dirty talk in the bedroom and have just as high a sex drive as the next person. Probably because of the connotations of those words when I was growing up, I could never take them as compliments, just as I could never see other derogatory words such as "nigger" being taken as compliments.

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