07-24-2007, 07:04 PM
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Grouch
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Join Date: Nov 2003
Location: Texas
Posts: 545
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Originally Posted by Loulabelle
Well unless you and Kenshin are one in the same person (in which case, why the hell are you giving yourself so much advice?) my comment was addressed to him, and the title of this thread in particular and since you'd not even responded to this thread, I have no clue why you feel the need to defend yourself.
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I was being a smart ass, and that was impulse post before replying with something a bit more serious.
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As my opening line made it clear, I was making a gross generalization to show my objection to the generalization that 'all women play mind games'. If I truly believed what I said to be true of all men, I probably WOULD be a lesbian!
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I wouldn't blame you. It's my repulsion at how men behave when it comes to romance that has caused me to turn strictly clitly.
Well, that and I was never really sexually attracted to men.
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Oh and just for the record, when I met the love of my life, online, we were both kind of seeing other people, he was living at home with his parents, was unemployed, had no drivers license or car, was on some pretty strong meds and didn't socialize much except online. Without issue I fell for him before we even met in person and we are currently living happily ever after. If someone is right for you, you won't care about stuff like that and you won't even care if she's beautiful (thank God Fussy didn't!) and she won't care about any of that stuff either.
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But I think that making yourself more attractive, and forgetting about the myth of Miss Right is a much more rewarding path. 
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Well sir that seems to be someone else's problem.
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