You know I stopped talking to her for a reason and that's because she gave me the cold shoulder regarding oh i'm too busy or whatever. If I go based upon what's been said that women are better at picking up and dropping signs then men ok...then it's quite obvious she's just being nice and not interested in anything more then friends. If that's the case I'm really not interested simply because of the fact that you don't meet on a dating site to be friends, you want something more and that's obvious otherwise why would both of you sign up in the first place?

Some might argue you meet up and get to know each other first (ie. friends) then move into the relationshiop type of deal. I've done that a few times and its a bit awkward for me cuz you're attracted to the person obviously enough to date'em but you're just friends type of deal...unless you're planning to be "friends w/benefits" which i'm not really into. I've got my friends which stay my friends. I've had a few of my friends want to get into something with me but I just told'em I don't do the friendship to relationship thing simply because what happens if you ever have a bad break up? Well it's called breakup by association at that point and you can't really hang with your friends anymore cuz they're her friends and yours type of deal. Makes it for a messy situation and drama.

You hang out with a "date friend" like that at a bar/club no girl is going to approach you cuz they think you're with someone. Just think about it...if you're dancin away and what not with your "friend" well hey wouldn't it come across that oh he's with someone already from a bystander's perspective?

I know some of you will argue and say that i'm overanalytical and should just go with the flow/emotion type of deal. But when I think about it that's the way I am, and I wouldn't change that part of me because it's gotten me out of dicey and messy situations and also helped me professionally gain a head up on others in my business. Call it a character trait if you will, that's been a boon and a vex to me hahah