07-27-2007, 02:00 AM
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Mrs FussyPucker
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Join Date: Jan 2003
Location: England
Posts: 3,635
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Originally Posted by -=Kenshin=-
Some might argue you meet up and get to know each other first (ie. friends) then move into the relationshiop type of deal. I've done that a few times and its a bit awkward for me cuz you're attracted to the person obviously enough to date'em but you're just friends type of deal...unless you're planning to be "friends w/benefits" which i'm not really into. I've got my friends which stay my friends. I've had a few of my friends want to get into something with me but I just told'em I don't do the friendship to relationship thing simply because what happens if you ever have a bad break up? Well it's called breakup by association at that point and you can't really hang with your friends anymore cuz they're her friends and yours type of deal. Makes it for a messy situation and drama.
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Just to make it clear, all of this is the kind of crap that doesn't matter when you love someone. I suggest you just keep going along through life and when you meet someone that you feel you can't live without and she feels the same about you, then there won't be any game playing, over analysis or caring about messing up a friendship. Until that time, there's no point in raking over things that aren't working. Relationships are not something you can 'figure out' or plan ahead of time, you have NO CHOICE but to go with the flow - it'll take as long as it takes and there's nothing you can do about it.
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