Maybe that's just the wrong attitude to have, I want to be appreciated for me. My penis is part of me sure.. a woman with nice breast doesn't want to be appreciated for her nice breasts she wants you to look up and appreciate her. I think your putting too much emphasis on parts and not enough on the whole, if your not happy with a part of you and that is what your focusing on she is going to pick up on that and isn't going to be any happier about it than you are youself.

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