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Here's how to use this checklist. For each question below just place an x next to any item that interests you.

Are there any specific types of people that turn you on?
[x ] Soldiers, marines, paratroopers
[x ] Sailors, coast guard, merchant marine
[x ] Airmen, pilots
[x ] Policemen, security people
[x ] Truck drivers
[ ] Firemen
[ ] Executioners
[ ] Nurses, doctors
[ ] Prostitutes, tramps
[ ] Hunters
[ ] Wrestlers
[x ] Surfers, life guards
[ ] Motorcycle people, Hells Angels
[x ] Cowboys, farm boys
[x ] Gentlemen, nobility
[x ] Business people, yuppies, managers
[ ] Servants
[x ] Teachers
[ ] Daddy, uncle
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

Which of the following scenes would turn you on?
[x ] Having a romantic dinner by candlelight
[x ] I am spanked because I have been a naughty girl
[ ] I am in the woods and suddenly this man comes from behind and grabs me
[x ] A stranger walks into my bedroom and finds me playing with myself
[x ] My partner and I are making love in a public place
[ ] I am are sold on a slave market
[ ] I am used as a slave in public
[x ] I am used as a slave in private
[ ] I am ordered to please others
[x ] I am a little schoolgirl
[ x] I am sitting/kneeling at my Master's feet
[x ] I am are tied and teased
[x ] I am grabbed by the hair and dragged into the bedroom
[ ] I am used as a dog, pony or pet
[ ] I am verbally humiliated
[x ] I am tied, gagged and blindfolded and left alone
[x ] I am tied, gagged, blindfolded and thoroughly whipped
[ ] My physical limits are tested and stretched
[x ] My mental limits are tested and stretched
[ ] I have to sign a contract
[ ] I am a total slave every day of the week
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

Is there any particular clothing or fabric that turns you on?
[x ] Leather
[ ] Rubber, latex
[ ] Patent leather, PVC
[x ] Sexy lingerie
[x ] Uniforms
[ ] Denim
[ ] High Heels
[ ] Boots
[ ] Wet suits
[ ] Servants uniform
[ ] Masks
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

Do any of the following environments or scenery turn you on?
[x ] Your bedroom
[ ] A dungeon, castle
[x ] Churches and abbeys
[x ] Farms and stables
[x ] Barracks
[ ] Abandoned construction sites
[ ] Back alleys
[ ] The red light district
[ ] A school or a classroom
[x ] BDSM-clubs
[x ] Estates
[ ] Junkyards and car dumps
[x ] Woods and forests
[ ] Medieval scenery
[ ] Nudist beaches
[ ] Parking spaces
[ ] Truck stops
[ ] The bath room
[ ] Hospital, dentist
[ ] Interrogation room
[ ] The shrink's couch
[x ] Boot camp
[x ] Jail, police station
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

I enjoy the following psychodrama(s):
[x ] The dominant talks, the submissive is silent or speaks only when spoken to
[x ] Dialogue in normal language
[x ] Dialogue in adapted language ("Master" and "slave")
[ ] Obey rules or else
[x ] Reasonable rules
[ ] Unreasonable rules
[ ] It is OK for the dominant to loose his temper
[x ] Swearing and filthy talk
[x ] Military/jail type commands
[ ] Strict training
[x ] Obvious and explicit role play
[x ] Subtle role play
[ ] I like to be persuaded, rather than commanded
[x ] Make me feel guilty
[ ] Make me feel cheap
[x ] Make me feel used
[x ] Make me feel owned
[ ] Make me feel useless
[x ] Objectify me
[ ] The dominant must have compassion
[ ] The dominant must have no compassion at all
[ ] The dominant must only have compassion after the scene
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

Sex and sexuality
[ ] I need to be sexually aroused when in scene
[ ] I need to be sexually aroused before I enter into a scene
[x ] I like as many orgasms as I can get
[ ] An orgasm turns me off
[ ] An orgasm must only be allowed as a reward
[ ] An orgasm is a must to end the scene
[x ] Orgasms are not important, but nice
[ ] Orgasms are not important at all
[x ] I want to beg for an orgasm first
[x ] I want my sexual abilities to be stretched
[x ] I want/need sex during a scene
[ ] I want no sex during a scene
[ ] Sex should be used to relieve the tension
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

I love the following attributes
[x ] Ropes
[x ] Leather cuffs and belts
[x ] Steel cuffs and chains
[x ] Ball and chain
[x ] Blindfold
[x ] Gags
[ ] Masks
[x ] Nipple clamps and clothespins
[x ] Whips
[x ] Riding crops
[ ] Canes
[x ] Silk to be tied with
[x ] Sex toys (vibrators, butt plugs)
[ ] Needles and pins
[ ] Cross, rack
[ ] Bondage table
[ ] Cage
[ ] Sling
[ ] Body bag
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

The following scenes appeal to me:
[x ] Being tied up, caressed and loved
[x ] Being in a public place and dominated in a subtle way
[x ] Being taken out with collar and leash
[ ] Being locked up and left alone
[x ] Being tied up in a comfortable position
[x ] Being tied up in discomfort
[x ] Being tied up and (in a sexual way) exposed
[x ] Being tied up and tickled
[x ] Being tied up and (sexually) teased
[x ] Being tied up and whipped, flogged or caned
[x ] Not being tied up, but verbally commanded into certain positions and having to maintain these
[x ] Caned, flogged or whipped without being tied or cuffed
[x ] Being spanked in the traditional way
[ ] Rough sex/being "raped"
[ ] Used as a servant
[x ] Being tied and tortured
[x ] Being tortured without being tied or cuffed
[x ] Being used by more than one dominant
[x ] Playing in combination with other couples
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

Safe words and signals
[x ] The dominant should establish one or more safe words
[ ] When I cry, the scene should stop
[ ] I should be able to communicate in plain language
[ ] The dominant should be able to read my body language
[ ] I want to be tested when I use a safe word or signal
[x ] All activity should stop immediately when I use a safe word or signal
[ ] I do not want to use any safe word at all and my signals should be ignored completely
[ ] When I use a safe word or signal the dominant should establish if the scene can continue
[x ] A scene should go on up to the point where I use a safe word or signal
[ ] The use of safe words and signals should be avoided as much as possible
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

To me erotic power exchange is:
[ ] Something I like incidentally, just as a kick
[ ] Something I like, but not too often
[x ] Something I want as much as possible
[x ] A lifestyle that I consider important and want to practice as much as possible
[ ] A lifestyle that should be present at all times
[ ] My way of life
[ ] The most important thing I can think of
[ ] Something I want exercised at all times and no matter what the consequences are.
Others, please specify:[/QUOTE]