Off the top of my head, I think it would be sensuously rewarding to dominate Holly Hunter. The appeal is in breaking her strong will. I have no interest in humiliating her. I want to humble her. I want to see the moment she has the epiphany that she wants to please me. I want to see the hatred in her eyes change to comfort as the "aha" hits her.

I should say that I have no specific interest or attraction to Holly Hunter. I picked her solely because of the personal strength she seems to project. I'm sure there are others I'll think of, but she came to mind first.

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Though I am different from you,
We were born involved in one another.

For it was not into my ear you whispered, but into my heart. It was not my lips you kissed, but my soul.

Complete surrender should not just come at moments in which one faces overwhelming odds, but in the calm when it seems one is personally in complete control of one's life.