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Old 09-26-2007, 10:37 AM
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Now I just want to say some of these are my personal kinks and some of these I would love to do with a SO. Enjoy.

Here's how to use this checklist. For each question below just place an x next to any item that interests you.

Are there any specific types of people that turn you on?
[x] Soldiers, marines, paratroopers
[ ] Sailors, coast guard, merchant marine
[ ] Airmen, pilots
[x] Policemen, security people
[ ] Truck drivers
[ ] Firemen
[ ] Executioners
[x] Nurses, doctors
[x] Prostitutes, tramps
[ ] Hunters
[ ] Wrestlers
[ ] Surfers, life guards
[x] Motorcycle people, Hells Angels
[ ] Cowboys, farm boys
[ ] Gentlemen, nobility
[ ] Business people, yuppies, managers
[x] Servants
[x] Teachers
[ ] Daddy, uncle
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

Which of the following scenes would turn you on?
[x] Having a romantic dinner by candlelight
[x] I am spanked because I have been a naughty girl
[x] I am in the woods and suddenly this man comes from behind and grabs me
[x] A stranger walks into my bedroom and finds me playing with myself
[x] My partner and I are making love in a public place
[x] I am are sold on a slave market
[x] I am used as a slave in public
[x] I am used as a slave in private
[x] I am ordered to please others
[x] I am a little schoolgirl
[x] I am sitting/kneeling at my Master's feet
[x] I am are tied and teased
[x] I am grabbed by the hair and dragged into the bedroom
[ ] I am used as a dog, pony or pet
[x] I am verbally humiliated
[x] I am tied, gagged and blindfolded and left alone
[x] I am tied, gagged, blindfolded and thoroughly whipped
[x] My physical limits are tested and stretched
[x] My mental limits are tested and stretched
[ ] I have to sign a contract
[ ] I am a total slave every day of the week
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

Is there any particular clothing or fabric that turns you on?
[x] Leather
[ ] Rubber, latex
[ ] Patent leather, PVC
[x] Sexy lingerie
[x] Uniforms
[x] Denim
[x] High Heels
[x] Boots
[ ] Wet suits
[x] Servants uniform
[ ] Masks
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

Do any of the following environments or scenery turn you on?
[x] Your bedroom
[x] A dungeon, castle
[x] Churches and abbeys
[x] Farms and stables
[ ] Barracks
[x] Abandoned construction sites
[x] Back alleys
[x] The red light district
[x] A school or a classroom
[x] BDSM-clubs
[x] Estates
[x] Junkyards and car dumps
[x] Woods and forests
[x] Medieval scenery
[x] Nudist beaches
[x] Parking spaces
[x] Truck stops
[x] The bath room
[ ] Hospital, dentist
[ ] Interrogation room
[ ] The shrink's couch
[ ] Boot camp
[ ] Jail, police station
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

I enjoy the following psychodrama(s):
[x] The dominant talks, the submissive is silent or speaks only when spoken to
[x] Dialogue in normal language
[x] Dialogue in adapted language ("Master" and "slave")
[x] Obey rules or else
[x] Reasonable rules
[ ] Unreasonable rules
[ ] It is OK for the dominant to loose his temper
[x] Swearing and filthy talk
[ ] Military/jail type commands
[ ] Strict training
[x] Obvious and explicit role play
[x] Subtle role play
[x] I like to be persuaded, rather than commanded
[ ] Make me feel guilty
[ ] Make me feel cheap
[ ] Make me feel used
[ ] Make me feel owned
[ ] Make me feel useless
[ ] Objectify me
[x] The dominant must have compassion
[ ] The dominant must have no compassion at all
[ ] The dominant must only have compassion after the scene
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

Sex and sexuality
[ ] I need to be sexually aroused when in scene
[ ] I need to be sexually aroused before I enter into a scene
[x] I like as many orgasms as I can get
[ ] An orgasm turns me off
[ ] An orgasm must only be allowed as a reward
[x] An orgasm is a must to end the scene
[ ] Orgasms are not important, but nice
[ ] Orgasms are not important at all
[x] I want to beg for an orgasm first
[x] I want my sexual abilities to be stretched
[x] I want/need sex during a scene
[ ] I want no sex during a scene
[x] Sex should be used to relieve the tension
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

I love the following attributes
[x] Ropes
[x] Leather cuffs and belts
[ ] Steel cuffs and chains
[ ] Ball and chain
[x] Blindfold
[x] Gags
[ ] Masks
[x] Nipple clamps and clothespins
[x] Whips
[x] Riding crops
[ ] Canes
[x] Silk to be tied with
[x] Sex toys (vibrators, butt plugs)
[ ] Needles and pins
[ ] Cross, rack
[ ] Bondage table
[x] Cage
[x] Sling
[ ] Body bag
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

The following scenes appeal to me:
[x] Being tied up, caressed and loved
[x] Being in a public place and dominated in a subtle way
[x] Being taken out with collar and leash
[ ] Being locked up and left alone
[x] Being tied up in a comfortable position
[ ] Being tied up in discomfort
[x] Being tied up and (in a sexual way) exposed
[x] Being tied up and tickled
[x] Being tied up and (sexually) teased
[x] Being tied up and whipped, flogged or caned
[x] Not being tied up, but verbally commanded into certain positions and having to maintain these
[x] Caned, flogged or whipped without being tied or cuffed
[x] Being spanked in the traditional way
[x] Rough sex/being "raped"
[x] Used as a servant
[x] Being tied and tortured
[x] Being tortured without being tied or cuffed
[x] Being used by more than one dominant
[x] Playing in combination with other couples
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

Safe words and signals
[x] The dominant should establish one or more safe words
[ ] When I cry, the scene should stop
[x] I should be able to communicate in plain language
[ ] The dominant should be able to read my body language
[ ] I want to be tested when I use a safe word or signal
[x] All activity should stop immediately when I use a safe word or signal
[ ] I do not want to use any safe word at all and my signals should be ignored completely
[ ] When I use a safe word or signal the dominant should establish if the scene can continue
[ ] A scene should go on up to the point where I use a safe word or signal
[ ] The use of safe words and signals should be avoided as much as possible
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

To me erotic power exchange is:
[ ] Something I like incidentally, just as a kick
[ ] Something I like, but not too often
[ ] Something I want as much as possible
[ ] A lifestyle that I consider important and want to practice as much as possible
[ ] A lifestyle that should be present at all times
[ ] My way of life
[ ] The most important thing I can think of
[ ] Something I want exercised at all times and no matter what the consequences are.
Others, please specify:[/QUOTE]
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